My Hubby wants another... :/

[haileysmom15]

I havent been on this site in a long time but I didn't know where else to express the way I have been feeling about this other than here.  I know that many of you have either been through this or can atleast help me with this.

Ok So hubby has been talking about wanting another baby.  Im not exactly sure when he would want to start trying for another or if he just means eventually he wants another one.  He really wants a boy and I keep telling him most likely its going to be another girl. 

I have been busting my butt to lose this baby weight that I have held on to since my first pregnancy.  I wanted another baby in the worst way after I had my miscarriage and now that I think about it I dont know if I will ever want another baby.  I don't know if thats just fear talking about maybe miscarrying again or if I really dont want another baby.  I am so happy with my two girls.... and I don;t know if I want to add anymore to my family.. Ughh I dont know what to do.. i think that If i were to get pregnant without trying like it was fate then i would accept it will open arms and a big heart... but i dont think I can actually try for another... ughh ladies I dont know what to do or what to think...

Hubby really wants another he tries really hard to not bring it up all the time.. but just yesterday mothers day he was watching the girls play together in the backyard and was like I want another one.. idk... i just don't know any advice? 

Thanks for taking the time out to read this and thank you if you answer :)

[Avetay]

May. 9, 2011 at 11:47 PM Hugs. I can't say I've been there. I want another one so bad butcant afford fertility treatments. I hope you and hubby can agree on what to do. Have you thought about not trying but not stopping anything from happening?

[haileysmom15]

May. 10, 2011 at 7:35 PM

Hey, I have thought about that.. but im afraid to get pregnant again.. I really dont know if i want anymore... idk i just have no idea what to do. Plus were we live it tiny as it is.. like we can barely all fit with all of our things... If we do have another we would need to move into a bigger place either three bedrooms or atleast a two bedroom place with a master bedroom big enough for all three kids to share... I just dont know im so conflicted on this subject

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