Perhaps orgasm doesn’t happen to you easily as a result of

intercourse. Most likely, you’re not

achieving the right amount of

stimulation to climax. Every

person’s level of arousal is different;

it doesn’t mean you or your partner is

doing anything wrong, or that you lack

attraction toward your lover. Perhaps you just need a little

something extra to help you get in the mood and “jump

start” your arousal. To help you prepare for sex, apply a small

amount of Pure Satisfaction UniSEX

Enhancement Gel to the center of a

Personal Finger Smitten placed on the

finger you are accustomed

to using to pleasure yourself. Gently

rub the finger smitten on your clitoris,

allowing the Pure Satisfaction to take its

effect. Many women say they are able

to climax within five to seven minutes

of application, and the tingling

sensation and level of arousal you

receive will help you when you’re with

your partner as well.

You may sometimes feel an inability to relax enough to fully enjoy self-pleasuring. This inability

may have many causes, the most common being stress-related. If you’re unable to relax enough to

fully enjoy self-pleasuring but feel like you need orgasmic release in order to relax, you may just need

some assistance. The RomantaTherapy® Velvet Pleasure, the first passion toy added to our exclusive

RomantaTherapy line, is a small, quiet personal massager with a pleasurable, velvety

touch. When used on your clitoris, it reduces the amount of manual

stimulation needed. You won’t have

to focus on keeping an adequate

pressure or speed — just allow

the Velvet Pleasure to aid in your

pleasure and enjoy the results. The

Velvet Pleasure comes with its own

carry case, providing a discreet way

for it to travel everywhere with you.

One of the staples of every woman’s

Passion Pantry is the Bullet. A bullet is

a small, egg-shaped vibrator attached

to a controller by a wire. The bullet, like

the Velvet Pleasure, provides added

stimulation to any body part it touches.

It has many accessories, like the Pleasure

Safari sleeves, that change the type of

stimulation received. For example, the

rabbit provides a less intense, almost

tickling sensation, while the turtle

provides a more direct, intense vibration.

Self Pleasuring: Taking the time to explore your own body, regardless of your age or sexual experience, helps you

discover your sensual likes and dislikes and achieve orgasm more easily. Self-pleasure is a very healthy

thing for all. Knowing where you like to be touched, and what effect that location has on you, shows

you how to teach your partner where to focus his attention. Self-pleasure isn’t about replacing your

partner; it’s about developing your relationship so you both can enjoy sex to the fullest. It also teaches

you to be more comfortable with your body.

A big misconception about self-pleasuring is that it solely involves your finger(s) and your clitoris.

But self-pleasuring is about connecting to and understanding your own body. Don’t limit yourself

and exclude the other sensual regions of your body like your breasts, nipples, stomach, thighs and

buttocks. Explore your body, first with your hands, and remember the places that tingled at your

touch.

Self-pleasure can also be incorporated into foreplay. An activity you can try with your partner is to lay side-by-side, facing each other, while you both

separately stimulate yourselves while watching each other. When you’re ready, you can “take over” for each other and continue the activity, only this time

you’re stimulating him while he touches you.

Self-pleasuring is the safest sex you can have. It helps you learn about your body, enjoy who you are and never have to worry about your performance. In

addition to being pleasurable, it’s natural, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun. It increases your sexual awareness and makes you a better lover. You should

never feel ashamed about self-pleasure — there’s absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying who you are and what makes you feel good.

Your Passion Consultant,

Carla

 

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sgr123
May. 7, 2007 at 6:35 PM Thanks for posting this.  I am sure a lot of women would appreciate it.

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Lilyo...
May. 7, 2007 at 6:35 PM

You have a mailing list for this information, or a group?

Lily

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annaf
May. 8, 2007 at 1:51 PM About time someone could exlain why not everyone is as crazy as I am.LOL,

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CEastep
May. 8, 2007 at 4:12 PM LOL Anna

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gina4
May. 8, 2007 at 5:10 PM I love your post.... I really need to start printing them off for my DH to read too..

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CEastep
May. 8, 2007 at 5:42 PM Yes Gina....I think men should be educated too! :)

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