Perhaps orgasm doesn’t happen to you easily as a result of
intercourse. Most likely, you’re not
achieving the right amount of
stimulation to climax. Every
person’s level of arousal is different;
it doesn’t mean you or your partner is
doing anything wrong, or that you lack
attraction toward your lover. Perhaps you just need a little
something extra to help you get in the mood and “jump
start” your arousal. To help you prepare for sex, apply a small
amount of Pure Satisfaction UniSEX
Enhancement Gel to the center of a
Personal Finger Smitten placed on the
finger you are accustomed
to using to pleasure yourself. Gently
rub the finger smitten on your clitoris,
allowing the Pure Satisfaction to take its
effect. Many women say they are able
to climax within five to seven minutes
of application, and the tingling
sensation and level of arousal you
receive will help you when you’re with
your partner as well.
You may sometimes feel an inability to relax enough to fully enjoy self-pleasuring. This inability
may have many causes, the most common being stress-related. If you’re unable to relax enough to
fully enjoy self-pleasuring but feel like you need orgasmic release in order to relax, you may just need
some assistance. The RomantaTherapy® Velvet Pleasure, the first passion toy added to our exclusive
RomantaTherapy line, is a small, quiet personal massager with a pleasurable, velvety
touch. When used on your clitoris, it reduces the amount of manual
stimulation needed. You won’t have
to focus on keeping an adequate
pressure or speed — just allow
the Velvet Pleasure to aid in your
pleasure and enjoy the results. The
Velvet Pleasure comes with its own
carry case, providing a discreet way
for it to travel everywhere with you.
One of the staples of every woman’s
Passion Pantry is the Bullet. A bullet is
a small, egg-shaped vibrator attached
to a controller by a wire. The bullet, like
the Velvet Pleasure, provides added
stimulation to any body part it touches.
It has many accessories, like the Pleasure
Safari sleeves, that change the type of
stimulation received. For example, the
rabbit provides a less intense, almost
tickling sensation, while the turtle
provides a more direct, intense vibration.
Self Pleasuring: Taking the time to explore your own body, regardless of your age or sexual experience, helps youdiscover your sensual likes and dislikes and achieve orgasm more easily. Self-pleasure is a very healthy
thing for all. Knowing where you like to be touched, and what effect that location has on you, shows
you how to teach your partner where to focus his attention. Self-pleasure isn’t about replacing your
partner; it’s about developing your relationship so you both can enjoy sex to the fullest. It also teaches
you to be more comfortable with your body.
A big misconception about self-pleasuring is that it solely involves your finger(s) and your clitoris.
But self-pleasuring is about connecting to and understanding your own body. Don’t limit yourself
and exclude the other sensual regions of your body like your breasts, nipples, stomach, thighs and
buttocks. Explore your body, first with your hands, and remember the places that tingled at your
touch.
Self-pleasure can also be incorporated into foreplay. An activity you can try with your partner is to lay side-by-side, facing each other, while you both
separately stimulate yourselves while watching each other. When you’re ready, you can “take over” for each other and continue the activity, only this time
you’re stimulating him while he touches you.
Self-pleasuring is the safest sex you can have. It helps you learn about your body, enjoy who you are and never have to worry about your performance. In
addition to being pleasurable, it’s natural, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun. It increases your sexual awareness and makes you a better lover. You should
never feel ashamed about self-pleasure — there’s absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying who you are and what makes you feel good.
Your Passion Consultant,
Carla
S E X U A L W E L L - B E I N G B Y P A S S I O N P A R T I E S
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