I could not even believe that I was given a hard time for one of my decisions today. I mean WTH? So heres the story...I have a very good friend and I love her to death, shes also a parent but since getting a divorce and finding a new man shes not the same person. Shes a good mom don't get me wrong and loves her kids and hes a great guy but she doesn't have her kids on the weekends anymore so that means they are normally out doing something that involves drinking. Anyway..my baby is due August 16th and shes having a big get together for a mutal friends b-day a couple weeks after I am due. She called me today and said she wanted me and DH to come and all that, I told her I wouldn't be able to and she acted offended and said why I told her I will have a newborn by then and 3 other kids and I don't leave my babies with just anyone. She doesn't understand that I don't want to bring my newborn baby around a bunch of people not to mention a bunch of people who are going to be drinking. Now after all these years Im having to step back and look at our friendship and wonder if we can even be friends after this. Its like shes changed so much she has NO concept of why I don't want to do this and why I feel its wrong. There was really no point to this other than to vent and try and feel better, its hurting me that I feel like our friendship might not be anymore or at least not as close as it used to be.