I am 30 year old woman and I always worked and supported myself. For the first time in 15 yrs i can not supposrt myself let alone how am I going to supposrt my baby. I feel like a failure. My lease is up in August we have no plce to go. Its my fault, no matter what I did I just couldnt stay above water. I should have stayed at my 2nd job longer. I should have been a bit wiser with my income. I should be more of an adult. The only thing left to do is put my head up high, smile, and push on. I just need one break, one shining of a light, and I can be/feel ok. I just wish I was smarter this time. So mad at myself.

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Jun. 9, 2011 at 12:56 PM

hugs        I feel the same some times.  I am hoping to be smarter this time around too.

good luck

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Jun. 9, 2011 at 12:59 PM

hugsYou think we can do it?

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Jun. 9, 2011 at 8:05 PM

  I hope things get better soon.  I cannot imagine what you must be going through.  Can you get any financial help from your state?  Please do not think of yourself as a failure, you are doing the best you can and that is all that you can do.  Sending prayers your way for things to be better soon....'hugs"

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Jun. 10, 2011 at 9:14 AM

I know they will I just get so stressed out and frustrated which is then not good for the baby. then i get upset lol. they say i make to much money to qualify for certain assistance (this is why i have no money, i make too much) they dont factor in my rent and bills.

thank you very much for the prayers they are much needed and greatly appreciated.

you rock


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