Life just goes on

[ArmyNGMom]

It's been a while since I have been on here and posted so much has changed since 2009 for dear hubby and myself. We in October of 2009 we got charged for neglecting the kids and we went through a 11/2 year of a court battle to only have it dropped to only neglecting on child. Since October of 2009 my youngest step son has been living with his deranged grand parents. Thanks to my darling step son Jason drama the kids all hove a restraining order on them for one year from the court on my youngest step son and the court filed a order of protection against me on the behalf of my step son since I was the one the grandparents and my stepson mother went after as beating the child and doing corporal punishment to him. Well in 2010 I had three of my step sons move out and in with their mothers and well only one of my step sons wants to move back in with his dad and I. But things have been so calm since it only my two sons living here with hubby and myself. Also in 2010 I found out that hubby has another child that's 15 yrs old and never knew anything about him until his sister told my husband so now I went from being a step mother of 4 step sons to being a step mother to 5 step sons. It's been a very rough 2 years and still going. The court told me I have to take anger management classes and parenting classes in order for hubby's visitation to get changed in December 2011. I want to do these classes for hubby's sake but I can't afford to miss time from work for these classes. So in other words my life has gone from good to really really bad in just a matter of being married for 3 1/2 years. Waiting to see what happens next