Well i had a daughter on March 22nd,2011. She is a beautiful,smart,and happy baby. I was happy with just her and my husband when i looked into the future i saw just us three. I got the mini pill after i had her because i didn't want anymore children anytime soon. We felt that we would like one more maybe 3 years from now,and as luck would have it I found out this morning from a Dr's blood test, that i am indeed pregnant again. At first i was upset,but it quickly turned to excitement and happiness. I will have babies maybe a year apart if that,and i know i will be judged for it as i'm only 21. I personally think i can handle anything God throws at me. I mean i've survived a rare auto-immune disease,taking care of a mother-in law with stage 4 brain cancer, and everything else. I'm positive i'll survive it and even thrive from it. 

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Jul. 8, 2011 at 12:54 PM

Congrats to you! If anyone judges you for being prenant so close together then they are not worth being around. Children are a blessing no matter how far or close they come. I found out I was pregnant with my second daughter before my oldest made it to her 1st birthday, at first I was depressed and sad that my plan to wait a few years didn't work out, but I would not take being pregnant so close together back for anything. Today my girls are 4 and 2 1/2(will be 3 in Dec.) and they are lost when the other is not around.good luck


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Jul. 8, 2011 at 1:04 PM

thanks :)

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Jul. 8, 2011 at 9:01 PM

Congrats!  And you will do just fine!  Enjoy baby #1 now, and she will be a good big sis later :)


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