Feeling so lost! Need advice, words of wisdom, etc.

[zackaroosmom]

 My husband and I have been together 6 1/2 years, married for 3 1/2 years. We've been through a lot through the years. Here lately, like the past month or two, I just haven't felt the same. You know that crazy in love feeling. I feel like a part of it is just stress, but we have been in way more stressful situations that we are in now. I can't figure out why this time is different. These feelings have led me to wonder if we should stay together. Don't get me wrong I love and care deeply for my husband, but I just don't feel IN love. He's my best friend and knows me better than anyone else does, so I'm scared of losing that and making a huge mistake by walking away. On the other hand I'm afraid that I could be wasting my life and my husbands by staying and us not being happy together. I'm so lost. I don't know what to do...

[LoveHaleyAlexis]

Jul. 27, 2011 at 12:25 PM

Give it a little time and try to spice it up a little.. Try to fall in love with him all over again. Talk. Try going to counseling. Talk to someone who has been married at least 20 years.. I am sure they will tell you there were time they did not feel madly in love with their husband. In the end, Dont waste your life.

[dStacey]

Aug. 12, 2011 at 10:08 PM

I have been married going on three years and there have been times when i wondered the same thing. It always boils down to i love him. For me its usually stressing times that it happens too. My parents havent had that spark for a long time but if you ask them they will both say that they dont know what they would do without each other. I think marriage is a constant state of falling in love and some times you fall out again if you are truly in love it will pass.