Hubbys pushing for another...

[haileysmom15]

I don't even know where to begin.  I feel like I keep writing about the same thing.  Hubby keeps asking me for another baby.  That he really wants a boy, and I have really come to terms with only having my two girls.  This might sound selfish of my but I don't want to start over with another baby.  Cheyenne is 18 months old and I love this stage in her life.  She is so much fun but then again so much work. 

I just quit my job last week so that I could go back to school full time for nursing.  I know this is going to but a struggle with only having one income coming in but I know we can do it for the time I am in school.  But lets say I did get pregnant then what?  I have to take yet again more time from school and then that just adds to more financial problems because we are going to need more things for that baby especially if it's a boy.

I hate to see that my husband can't get what he wants.  It drives me crazy to always tell him no... and that I am happy with the family that we have.  I know we are so blessed to have two beautiful healthy children.  I just don't know what else to say to hubby.  Everytime that we have sex its a battle and I don't want that.  It's to the point where I make him wear a condom because I'm afraid of him getting me pregnant ya kno.  (I know TMI sorry) I just want whoever is reading this to understand where Im at, at this point in my life and marriage.  I feel like I need to get out of school, with my nursing degree and I need to start my career.  

With being a young mom and not doing it the right way I need to start making moves to better myself and my family. I don't always want it to be a struggle... But to my husband he thinks no matter what it will always be a struggle and that kids are always hard and I know that I just don't know.  I am happy with two and really don't want anymore and I just don't know what to do.  I feel like a broken record, but this is what has been going on in my life since Cheyenne was about 9 or 10 months old... :/ any suggestions?

Thanks for anyone who reads this... sorry if it's a little lengthy...

[Avetay]

Aug. 9, 2011 at 11:37 AM Hugs. Could you try talking to him about trying when your almost done with school? I know Tim and didn't really see eye to eye about having another baby but to our Supprise I am pregnant again.
I know it's hard but say nursing school Is what 2 years maybe you can start ttc while your doing clinicals. Good luck. Give the girls a hug for me

[haileysmom15]

Aug. 9, 2011 at 11:52 AM

Ave hahaha i just wrote you a long comment on FB not knowing you commented on this one already!! lol I will give Asher one from me!!! Yeah IDK i dont even think around that time I'm going to want another... This is how I see it... If it's meant for us to have another one it will happen but I am not going to try for another one... Im to the point where I am trying everything to prevent it! lolol..

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