Why Can't He Be Stopped?

[nevergiveupmom]

My dad is one of America's biggest narcissistic and dead beat dad's ever. He has 7 kids and only has a relationship with my oldest little brother. He really doesn't have a relationship with any of the rest of his kids. He tries everything in the book to get support lowered and he has done it several times. This time it worked he is paying a ridiculously low amount. They went to court and well all I can say is read the transcripts. After you read them you will be wondering how my mom lost. People find it hard to believe he actually gets away with it but he does. How can this man call himself a father. He doesn't want to help his children out that have medical issues/disabilities. My mom is left to care for them on her own. If she works overtime he will take her back to court to lower support even more. He has tied her hands. 

What gets me is that my mom is the only one that is responsible to take care of them financially. She cries about it all the time. Even my little brother and sisters have figured it out that my mom does everything for them. It breaks her heart that no one else cares for them like she does. He doesn't care how it affects my brother and sisters. If he did he wouldn't have done this to them.. He thought he was hurting my mom but he only hurt them.

Like I've stated at the beginning, he keeps on going back to court to lower his child support. He doesn't ask what he can do to help out with his children and their special needs. Instead he always tries to see what he can do to get out of helping my mom out. All of my little siblings have special needs/medical problems and medication that they have to take. It cost a lot of money to take care of them medically not mentioning the other costs. My little brother and sisters are home schooled because of their special needs/medical issues. Since their home schooled they want to take outside classes, but it cost money. My mom can not afford to pay for everything on her own and out of her pay check only. We have tried asking my dad for money to help out with finances so the little ones as we call them can take the classes they want. Once again our father refuses to help us out. 

When my middle sister came back from Iraq he didn't even talk to her. He doesn't care that his kids don't like him. All he cares about is his wallet. He has never had to own up to anything that he has done to us or our mom, or for any of his actions. He was a mean alcohol and beat us and my mom and was mentally abused. She left him to get rid of the mental abuse but sad to say she still has to endure it and we still feel that my dad doesn't ever have to own up to his abuse. 

 My mom has done a great job at raising us kids. She has given us everything she possibly could, she has gone without. She is scared about how she will be able to do it all. She always is taking flack that I help her take the kids to the doctors. She has to work and can't do it all. She has recently been of on FMLA and is going back to work before she is ready because her FMLA has run out. None of that has been taking into consideration. 

Cops, lawyers, and counselors have never made him own up to what he has done. He has become so narcissistic and mentally abusive that he is out of control.