Hello Evryone its been so long since I last was on. I figured I would catch everyone up.

[MOMofTwo_99_00]

 Hello everyone,

 

                     Its been so long since I last Posted on Cafe Mom. So I Wanted to update on whats been going on in my life and family. And kind of Explain why I have not been on here for so long. I guess I should start where the craziness started. My step son moved in Three and a Half years ago. He was living with his grandparents by his own choice. And Then cause a lot of confusion there, So he came here. To live with us. Witch is at the time what I had really wanted. I wanted my whole family together, So everything seemed great at first. He was listening, Helping out, Doing way more then most kids. His age. But he started dating my worst nightmare, She was 13 and acted grown. Gave her parents hell. And treated them badly. So in a very short time after Micheal started dating her, His ways changed. He started acting out. Braking things in the house out of anger. And then... He started jumping on his dad, Hitting him and punching him. Knowing his dad has health problems, and is not able to deal with all that. After, The first time I told Micheal I would not tolerate that in my house. I had given him three chances before I told him he had to go. All this went on in a three year period. But I was at my wits end. He was using drugs, Not coming home. Lying. Stealing. And then beating on his younger siblings. So I just had it. So now he is living with his Aunt. And seems to be doing ok. He and the girl have since broken up. But he found his Bio. I have raised him since he was 2. So after 16 years of him being mine Im having a hard time with it. He told everyone I am nothing to him, That the only parent he has is he Mother. So I have not really spoken to him in three months. And have been kind of down. But other then this.

                          My two kids have been trying to adjust. Im trying to get the bad behaviors that they picked up from him, there older brother out of the house again. And I am trying to pull the family back together. Its been hard. But I am going to keep fighting. My daughter will be 13 in Feb. And my youngest turned 11 in August. I have new pictures to add soon. And I will post them . Robert is still playing football, And doing great at it. He is a Right guard and Right tackle. And he is on Offence and Defence and dose special  teams. I wanted to have Evelyn in Cheer leading. But she wont. She wont dance. And she is not in to anything else really.  So Im not to sure what I can get her into. I hope to find something soon. That she likes and is good at. Robert is still my little sugar bear, And always looking out for me. He is like my little body gaurd. And wont let no one hurt me. He is always trying to make some one laugh. And he is always goofing around. And is often in trouble for mouthing off or swearing. He thinks he is 20. And its cute at times, Not the swearing and bad things, But the way he acts so grown and trys to do so much to make things better for mommy. He is a Good kid. And I know I am blessed. Evelyn is still Evelyn. Very shy at times, And really mouthy. She thinks she can tell her dad what to do. And seems to bump heads with him all the time. But when it comes to me, She just seems to know better. She dose not push me as much as she dose him. She started doing a little better with the way she treats Robert after Micheal left. But still has her days. And when she dose man, Them are the days I want to run a way lol. But I love my kids to death, They are my soul reason for being here. And I know without them I would of given up a long time ago. I think I would of just said thats it. But becuase im fighting to give them a better life then I once had. I just want whats best for them.

                                 And as for me and Big Rob. Things have been good. We dont fight as often. And seem to get a long great at times. We still have are ups and downs. And because of the stress of paying so much to live in the house we are in. And the bills and everything else. We seem to get frustrated at times. But I love this man with my whole heart and would do anything for him. So As for the stress and feeling like a bad mom at times because my kids need cloths for school. And bills are just crazy. I keep trying and trying in hopes that some day things will be better for us all.

                              We still have are Old Dog Simba. And are old Cat Mr. Fattys. Last year we got a Pom and named him Thor. And another Kitten Milk Shake. Who is now my cousins cat. He lives here with his girl friend for a while until they get on there feet. And find a place. So Im not just taken care of my kids. Im taken care of two other adults. But its not in me to say no to anyone in need. So even though we can barley get by at times, I still would rather let them be here then on the streets in the cold.

 

                      So thats what is going on in my life. Whats going on in yours ? What have I Missed? And If you Have advice on what I can do to get my group back on track please message me.... Thank you for reading.

 

                        Patty Mosso

 

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Jan. 10, 2012 at 12:02 AM

Welcome Back!!