I always wondered wha it be like to not deal with a lot of criticism and the things that comes along with it. I always wondered why am I in this situation I am in. I had to mature even at an esrly age because of the life I lived growing up. It was not easy. I seen how my parents raised me and my sisters and I came to the conclusion that I have to achieve my goals for my son. I never depended on anyone to help me with anything. I got a job when I was old enough to work to pay my way through school. It was hard and the way things were going I had to think about my future. I never got treated the same way my sisters were. They looked down on me and I feel like why did I even bother? I dealt with so much bull growing up and now I feel like I will never put my son in the same situation. I may be a single parent, but I will make it one way or another. Now I have a child who depends on me for everything and it just made me feel even stronger than before and I thank the Lord everday for the blessings I have received and for not giving up on me.

I also noticed a lot of people look at me differently now because I am a single mother of a two year old son who is my life and gves me hope. I work full time and work hard for everything I have. I don't have a lot of friends but it is okay with me. I just mind my own business because I have my own problems to deal with. I also noticed I am not favored in any type of social media or anything of that because I have responsibilities to handle. Am I wrong for not wanting to be apart of the partying type of groups??? I don't have the energy to even think about it. I barely have enough in my bank accounts to do the fun life. I will say this I am happy with the woman I BECAME!! I always think about what others are doing with their life but at the end of the day, my child is safe, healthy and is happy with everything I do for him. I lov being able to see my son smile and cuddle up with him at night. He is my world and I thank God for this blessing of becoming a hardworking mother whostrives for the best of her child. I don't do the drama at all, so I stay inmy lane and keep minding my own business and life. I never needed or wanted from anyone because I know my worth and values. I loe the fact that I can wake up each day and realize I don't need to compare myself to anyone because we are all different trying to make it in this cruel world we live in. I only talk to people onhere because we all can relate to each others situations and that we are moms doing the best of our children.

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