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June 4, 2007 at 11:23 PM by sammi666
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my husband told me that he wants a divorce the day before my birthday and then tells me how he's not in love with me anymore but then he said he doesn't love things about me and then he said he loves me as a person but hes not in love with me. and how he cant handle working 2 jobs an in working a 8 or 9 hour day then coming home and working as a dad. and he was telling me how we would be better off apart and he wouldn't take my son away from me. he said that hes changed and i've stayed the same. but the first thing he said anything about is how i'm a hippie for dyeing my hair.

and then on my birthday he was saying how we can work it out. now i don't know if i even want to be with him after he was telling me how he doesn't love me and how he doesn't want to be a dad.and it would be almost easier to be without him

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Written by sammi666 on June 4, 2007 at 11:23 PM
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Its hard to find anything to say to that im sorry that has to hurt pretty bad . Ive been thru the same thing basically so if you need someone to tak to ill be around tracy

peacefult Jun. 5, 2007 at 12:01 AM

YOU KNOW I AM IN ALMOST THE SAME SPACE WITH MY HUSBAND. ALL I CAN SAY TO YOU IS, IF HE IS ACTING LIKE A FREAK, BUT DOES WANT TO WORK ON THINGS, TAKE HIM UP ON IT IF YOU CAN, AND IF THAT DOESN'T WORK, THEN YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU TRIED EVERYTHING YOU COULD BEFORE THROWING IN THE TOWEL. I THINK HE'S GOT SOME NERVE DOING IT RIGHT BEFORE YOUR BIRTHDAY AND THEN FLIP FLOPING ON IT. IT SOUNDS LIKE HE IS CONFUSED. MAYBE SEEING A PROFESSIONAL WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA..................IT SEEMS SOMETIMES YOU ARE ABLE TO SAY THINGS THER THAT YOU WOULDN'T NORMALLY. I'M SORRY THAT WE ARE GOING THROUGH THIS KINDA STUFF AT THE SAME TIME, JUST KNOW, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I AM ALWAYS AROUND IF YOU NEED TO VENT OR RELATE TO OUR SAME SITUATIONS.

AND I LIKE YOUR HAIR. I HATE THAT MEN ARE STUPID ENOUGH TO OPEN THIER MOUTHS BEFORE THEY KNOW WHAT THEY MEAN OR ARE SAYING.

I'M HERE FOR YA!!!

JERKY Jun. 5, 2007 at 1:31 AM

I'd at least try and work on it, it seems all so sudden...By the way, although love is an emotion, it's also a choice. There are times when I'm not IN love with my husband, but I still love him. And at the alter I made a commitment. I'm a person of my word, so I'm going to stick to that commitment forever.

miatagirl Jun. 5, 2007 at 3:18 PM

i have a little girl the same as you son. and if i were in your shoes i would leave his ass high and dry. you and your son deserve better then that.

Tess2007 Jun. 7, 2007 at 12:02 AM

Hey Sam,

I agree with most of these people. You know where I stand on the subject. If you guys seperate maybe you could go on a few dates or something..you know get to know each other again. I told Jp what happend the other day between you and your husband. He said you hurt his feelings, he said if it was him and I said that, he would say forget it. It seemed as if he was trying to make an effort and was shot down. Anyways I love ya and it's your decission in the end.

ToniMay Jun. 8, 2007 at 2:25 PM

I went thru the same thing with my son's father when I was pregnant. He told me after I had gotten back from the hospital for a month while my grandmother was in there for having 5-6 heartattacks. We were on and off for a month after he told me, then again after I had my son. I decided I couldn't live with the thought in the back of my mind that he doesn't love me and is only with me for a physical relationship. My personal opinion is to leave while its not that bad. I waited and we fought and fought and fought. He threw my keys at me once and missed my son's head nearly by and inch, if he was so careless to throw something while I was holding our son I wasn't gonna chance things getting worse. I wish you the best of luck in your decision!

Dmimama1206 Jun. 15, 2007 at 11:06 AM

I love you Sammi and am So proud of you for being so strong and being such a great mommy. I hope I can move up there soon so I can be there with you and my grandbaby. I hate being away from him!!!!

yo mamma hehehe

stillll32 Jun. 23, 2007 at 1:25 AM