Why is it so hard for my husband to understand that I need some me time!! I am a SAHM and he works shift work and gets to socialize with friends before, during and after work. I rarely go out, I am at home with the baby day and night all day everyday. Dont get me wrong ladies, I luv her to death. She is at that terrible two stage and I want to pull my hair out!! I appreciate the fact that I am able to stay at home with my baby.  I dont mind doing all the housework, taking care of the baby and paying some of the bills.  When he is at home, sometimes he barely helps. It seems as though I have 2 kids to take care of!!!!! When he is off,  I try to get out and be by myself. Now he wants me to stay home and be with him and the baby. I think he just doesnt want to be at home taking care of the baby by himself!!!!! He complains about the gas I use up and doing unneccessary running around!!! I feel like crying sometimes because I am so stressed. I dont know how this works, this is the first time I've been a mom, first time I have ever been off work!!! Do I have the right to demand me time, do I have the right to ask for more help, do I have the right to knock him over the head :) lol  just kidding!!!!!! I think I would feel different If I had my girlfriends around to talk to instead of holding it in and crying when I am by myself!!!!

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