Why Is It?

[zarias_mommy]

Why is it that when u ask a man to do something it takes 8 years for them to do it but when they ask us its done right away. 

I asked my bf to fix the toilet that is stopped up, I would have done it myself if I thought that I wouldn't throw up, but I have a week stomach and couldnt take it.  He got a damn attitude, but when he asks me to make food or something its no prob for me to stop what i am doing and get him something to eat....WTF.  He is driving me crazy and its not even noon.  We have only been up for about 2 hours now and he is already on my last damn nerve.  Maybe I am just buggin cuz my friend came last night but what the hell is the problem.  If I ask for something to get done then it should get done just as fast as I do things, unless I just stop doing things he asks for.

 

[wendy173]

Jun. 16, 2007 at 11:38 AM Sometimes I wonder if all men are like that.. I will ask my husband to do something and I have to keep asking over and over again.. But just like you when he ask for something I will stop what I am doing and do it.. I guess that is the motherly duties thou..

[Jayden_n_Mommy]

Jun. 25, 2007 at 10:10 AM Honey dont even try to figure men out.  I know what you saying.  My sons father and I are not together but he is still active in my sons life.  He will be a pain in the a$$ till whenever and no matter how many times I ask for something to be done (for his son no less) he waits til the last minute to do it.  I finally said to him when we both calmed down instead of us fighting why cant you see that Im upset because its important to me.  If something is important to you I am sure you want me to pay attention so please understand my position on this. He is getting the hint now.  Sometimes I still gotta remind him to do small items but since we are not together and he is trying I can't be too upset because at least a little is better than nothing at all.................smile.