My Man is a Gamer!!!

[mylilangelkayla]

I get so annoyed sometimes when all he wants to do is sit in front of a computer all day. He works 10 hrs. a day, comes home, and then gets straight on the computer. I feel like he doesn't want to spend time with me. Like he has more fun with a computer than he does with me. I tried to make it better by having a compromise with him. I told him he could play for three hours and not every day and I would be a lot happier. Of course he never wants to stick to it. He usually ends up staying on until 2 or 3 in the morning, and then he's right back on it the next day. Im so sick of sharing my time with a computer. I feel so left out and unimportant. My question is: Am I being unfair? Is it right of me to feel like that? How can I get married to someone if I feel like I don't even matter to him? We have a lot of fights about it too. I tell him how I feel and then he gets mad and says that I don't care about what he wants. Of course I care, that's why I compromised with him. I didn't say he couldn't play at all. Am I overreacting or do I have a right to be upset about it?Any advice would be great.

[Ohio_Redneck]

Jun. 19, 2007 at 1:02 PM

My boyfriend is the same way!! He plays a online game called RUNESCAPE ALL DAY EVERY DAY if he's not playing it he's sleeping

Yea i play it too but i get bored after about a hour

Granted he pays for both of us (10 bucks a month) and he does have a good point that 5 bucks a month he spends on it - keeps him out of the bars, and out of jail - THAT is the only good thing about it, specially since the last cpl times he's left to go to the bar (which lately is very far and few inbetween), He got pulled over and hauled off to jail IN MY DRIVEWAY he was already parked keys out of the truck - and he passed the Tests they gave him in the middle of the road

so i shouldnt complain too much, but its annoying cant even carry on a decent conversation because his nose is into the game and nothing else, BUT if he wants to takl about the game he's all up for a good convo - Which I AM NOT - i dont want to talk for hours about it like he does

so i feel ur pain and ur not over reacting at all

[mylilangelkayla]

Jun. 19, 2007 at 1:08 PM

yeah, mine plays vanguard. I hate being around his brothers because that's ALL they talk about the whole time they are together. I don't see how they don't get tired of it! It drives me nuts!!!!

(Original Poster)