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Being Rude and taking advantage
- Jun 26, 2007 at 4:09 PM
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This is Friday the 22nd:
Have any of ya ever helped a friend and then wondered WHY did I do this? I told ya I was helping a g/f out cause she was going into surgery. Oh my God! Here's how it went
1. she stayed up till 2 am the night before drinking (not drinking allowed)
2. was a pain in the ass at the hospital>>>the kids acted better
3. they got her back in a room and we went to get lunch, we get back and the nurse tells me she has been yelling for me the whole time. ( she knew I needed to feed the boys)
4. she bitched about everything possible
5. they ended up keeping her over night
6. I had to go back and get her the next day
1. take her to her house
2. get her meds
3. go food shopping
7. get her home and she is on the phone all day
8. she stays up all night
9. she colored my hair
10. took pain meds and left to go get her son>>>not a good idea driving after pain meds
11. comes back and put blonde highlights in hair....waits forever to do that...knows I gotta go to bed early....side job I had to do sunday......fucked up highlights
12. I got home from side job and all she has done since is BITCH!
13. Her kid will not eat anything we make and she lets him get away with it.
14. she is sleeping on my couch......offered her a queen size bed...in another room
15. wants everyone to go to sleep when she is ready to go to sleep
16. takes WAY too much pain meds.
Oaky I will stop ther for now. I am just getting tired of the shit. This is my house and if she keeps it up she is OUT!
This is a few days later
Okay this is about my g/f that is staying here. She has to go. I was about three seconds away from telling her to get her kid under control are she had to leave. He didn't eat dinner cause I made his plate. Didn't even try it. He did finally eat his baked beans and that was it. She told him he could have more beans when he was finished with them. Oh hell nah! I flat out told her no on that one. If he is hungry enough he will try the other food and eat it also. Finally I put him in the corner I couldn't take it any more. I made him stand there for awhile. I told him he needed to chill out and give everyone a break and that he HAD to listen to me in my home or they wasn't welcome again.(She was standing right there) I asked him if he understood what I was saying and he basically told me he wasn't gonna listen. So he stood there until he told me he understood. I think it made her mad, but oh well. She said she might leave tomorrow. That's cool. I'll hold the door open.
I wouldn't have a problem if she made him listen and she would stay awake. I cleaned up the house today while she was gone (getting more pain meds.) and I put all her shit on the couch. If she wanted to sit there she had to clean it. I think she got the point. She cleaned all her mess up.
I truly believe that if we are to remain friends, she needs to leave real soon. I'm not trying to be a bitch or anything. I just can't stand people staying with me for any period of time.
The good news is I did color my hair so now it isn't brown, orange and blonde. LOL. Yes, I had to fix it myself. Oh well lesson learned. She can't do hair. This was today
Thank God she is gone. I couldn't put up with it anymore. She called her doctor today bitching about all the pain she was in and he said he wanted her back at the hospital. She never told the doctor that she was smoking and eating get this.....fried fish, french fries chicken nuggets and all that good shit. ( oh she had her tonsils/adenoids and sinuses fixed) She failed to mention she has taken all her pain meds and then some and she is out.
She left out of here with an attitude here is how this went......she was mad that I wasn't being quite enough for her slumber party....then she yelled at the kids because Kay asked her if those were the Popsicles she bought and she said " Yes, I bought theses fucking Popsicles, mind you goddamn business" that set me off and the she yelled at Dusty for being near her car talking to her son............................when she left she was pissed at the kids and she said she would call me later....I told her to forget about the call and get the fuck in her car before she got beat down.
Im sorry you just don't yell at other peoples kids when you are a guest at their house. Needless to say she won't be back. I will not put my family through that again.
Was I wrong for what I said to her?
Have any of ya ever helped a friend and then wondered WHY did I do this? I told ya I was helping a g/f out cause she was going into surgery. Oh my God! Here's how it went
1. she stayed up till 2 am the night before drinking (not drinking allowed)
2. was a pain in the ass at the hospital>>>the kids acted better
3. they got her back in a room and we went to get lunch, we get back and the nurse tells me she has been yelling for me the whole time. ( she knew I needed to feed the boys)
4. she bitched about everything possible
5. they ended up keeping her over night
6. I had to go back and get her the next day
1. take her to her house
2. get her meds
3. go food shopping
7. get her home and she is on the phone all day
8. she stays up all night
9. she colored my hair
10. took pain meds and left to go get her son>>>not a good idea driving after pain meds
11. comes back and put blonde highlights in hair....waits forever to do that...knows I gotta go to bed early....side job I had to do sunday......fucked up highlights
12. I got home from side job and all she has done since is BITCH!
13. Her kid will not eat anything we make and she lets him get away with it.
14. she is sleeping on my couch......offered her a queen size bed...in another room
15. wants everyone to go to sleep when she is ready to go to sleep
16. takes WAY too much pain meds.
Oaky I will stop ther for now. I am just getting tired of the shit. This is my house and if she keeps it up she is OUT!
This is a few days later
Okay this is about my g/f that is staying here. She has to go. I was about three seconds away from telling her to get her kid under control are she had to leave. He didn't eat dinner cause I made his plate. Didn't even try it. He did finally eat his baked beans and that was it. She told him he could have more beans when he was finished with them. Oh hell nah! I flat out told her no on that one. If he is hungry enough he will try the other food and eat it also. Finally I put him in the corner I couldn't take it any more. I made him stand there for awhile. I told him he needed to chill out and give everyone a break and that he HAD to listen to me in my home or they wasn't welcome again.(She was standing right there) I asked him if he understood what I was saying and he basically told me he wasn't gonna listen. So he stood there until he told me he understood. I think it made her mad, but oh well. She said she might leave tomorrow. That's cool. I'll hold the door open.
I wouldn't have a problem if she made him listen and she would stay awake. I cleaned up the house today while she was gone (getting more pain meds.) and I put all her shit on the couch. If she wanted to sit there she had to clean it. I think she got the point. She cleaned all her mess up.
I truly believe that if we are to remain friends, she needs to leave real soon. I'm not trying to be a bitch or anything. I just can't stand people staying with me for any period of time.
The good news is I did color my hair so now it isn't brown, orange and blonde. LOL. Yes, I had to fix it myself. Oh well lesson learned. She can't do hair. This was today
Thank God she is gone. I couldn't put up with it anymore. She called her doctor today bitching about all the pain she was in and he said he wanted her back at the hospital. She never told the doctor that she was smoking and eating get this.....fried fish, french fries chicken nuggets and all that good shit. ( oh she had her tonsils/adenoids and sinuses fixed) She failed to mention she has taken all her pain meds and then some and she is out.
She left out of here with an attitude here is how this went......she was mad that I wasn't being quite enough for her slumber party....then she yelled at the kids because Kay asked her if those were the Popsicles she bought and she said " Yes, I bought theses fucking Popsicles, mind you goddamn business" that set me off and the she yelled at Dusty for being near her car talking to her son............................when she left she was pissed at the kids and she said she would call me later....I told her to forget about the call and get the fuck in her car before she got beat down.
Im sorry you just don't yell at other peoples kids when you are a guest at their house. Needless to say she won't be back. I will not put my family through that again.
Was I wrong for what I said to her?
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Jun. 26, 2007 at 7:17 PM
First of all, if her kids were that big of a pain in the ass, she wouldn't have stayed at my house!! I would have went to hers to check on her and the kids, but damn with your family and then hers, your house must have been busting at the seems!!!
I hope you guys can save the friendship, but maybe just take some time away from each other for a while!!!
Jun. 26, 2007 at 11:04 PM
HELL FING NO U WEREN'T WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know its hard having someone else in ur house,about a year ago jimmmy and i helped out a neighbor who was supposed to go to rehab for her crack habit its a long story but need less to say she never went and is now in jail!
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