I just don't get it!!!When I worked at the law firm, he complained that I didn't spend enough time with the kids, granted I was working like 60 hours a week, but he was not working at ALL!!! Someone had to pay the bills right?? Then he gets a really good paying job, so I leave mine because now I really am burned out and tired of working for the a-holes at the office, I give my 2 week and and he's like "GREAT,  you can be a stay at home mom". OK, I say. Then after 3 weeks of the SAHM thing, I have decided I need to go back to work because there is only so much time I can stay on the computer or watching TV or whatever while the kids are at school, camp etc. So, I find a job but it's full time so I decide not to take it, then he starts complaining that we don't have enough to pay the bills and the rent and the blah blah blah blah blah.......2 weeks later I find a pasrt time job that is willing to work around his hours!!! Now he is complaining that I work to much AGAIN!!! But lo and behold the one flippin night we both have off together, he is out with his friends!!!!!! AAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH One of these days Alice. bang zoom to the moon!!!

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Jul. 4, 2007 at 12:51 AM my "boyfriend" got on my case about not having a job too. then he told me it was ok if i wanted to be a stay at home mom and now he says that i need to get a job. so i completely understand your frustration. the only thing is that i have no one to watch the both the twins while im at school all day next year (im still trying to figure that out with the county). . . and i can only work weekends because thats when my boyfriend has off and we wont have to pay for daycare.

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Jul. 4, 2007 at 2:32 AM when u figure out their thought processes let me know! mine is never happy it seems, just wants something to bitch about!

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Jul. 4, 2007 at 11:50 AM  husband coun bitch more than women. oh my husband can bitch.  i always tell him he is a bigger woman than me. ni bitch for things arounde the house but he bitch for simple things like finding his keys.

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Jul. 4, 2007 at 1:39 PM yea i know what ur going thru girl...my baby dad was like that.and then on his off days....tra la la la la off to his friends...guys can be such jerks

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Jul. 4, 2007 at 6:07 PM Ok so did I find the ONLY good guy around?? He works WAY too much BUT, I have everything I want or need. The bills are paid and we usually never want for anything. (Thats because if I want it I get it)  I have a slight dissability and cant work so he works 2 jobs and I stay home with the baby.... I feel bad for you girls, you have my sympathy. I can't say that I relate but I can wish you good luck.

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