I have read many post about women feeling down on themselves. I have to say that I am a plus size woman Im size 22 and at times yes I hate myself but then I look at the mirrow and yes Im fat but I also like what I see. my husband had the nerve to one day come and tell me that if I lose weight I would be happier thats when I realized that it wasnt like that it turn out to be that if I accepted myself. I have been overweight since I was 2 months old and I learned to live with it my husband met me when I was sz 18 and that was my pre baby size which I wont lie Im trying to get back to it but I dont want to be a 4 bcos I know that is not meant to be, plain and simple On the other hand I am a women who graduated from high school at 16 got into pre med school at 16. Have a 4 years medical school experience and knowledge didnt like medical school so I switched to translation and interpretation in german and french and now I got myb admission to start school here on the states for internacional studies and french as a minor. Dont think bcos you earn a few pounds you are not worth it.Take example of This supermodel Heidi Klum she is skinny pretty with money she got involved with this italian jerk who dumped her when she was pregnant. Regardless of how gorgeous she is. Now she is with singer Seal and he raises her kid with the italin plus they have another one. So laides my point is dont underestimate yourselves and if your husband puts you down then come back up for you and the more you do it the more he will admire you and if he doesnt then he can alk away from your life and someone in the world will find you and love you the way you need to be loved. There is a lot of drama here and some people are mean, But I have to say that I have found nice people that are on my friends lists moms who struggle and suffer but their hearts melts when it comes to the litle ones. I love you all and keep going strong.
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onyourterms Jul. 7, 2007 at 4:18 PM