I have to say ...

  • July 7, 2007 at 4:14 PM by steph2015
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I have read many post about women feeling down on themselves. I have to say that I am  a plus size woman Im size 22 and at times yes I hate myself but then I look at the mirrow and yes Im fat but I also like what I see. my  husband had the nerve to one day come and tell me that if I lose weight I would be happier thats when I realized that it wasnt like that it turn out to be that if I accepted myself. I have been overweight since I was 2 months old and I learned to live with it my husband met me when I was sz 18 and that was my pre baby size which I wont lie Im trying to get back to it but I dont want to be a 4 bcos I know that is not meant to be, plain and simple On the other hand I am a women who graduated from high school at 16 got into pre med school at 16. Have a 4 years medical school experience and knowledge  didnt like medical school so I switched to translation and interpretation in german and french and now I got myb admission to start school here on the states for internacional studies and french as a minor. Dont think bcos you earn a few pounds you are not worth it.Take example of This supermodel Heidi Klum she is skinny pretty with money she got involved with this italian jerk who dumped her when she was pregnant. Regardless of how gorgeous she is. Now she is with singer Seal and he raises her kid with the italin plus they have another one. So laides my point is dont underestimate yourselves and if your husband puts you down then come back up for you and the more you do it the more he will admire you and if he doesnt then he can alk away from your life and someone in the world will find you and love you the way you need to be loved. There is a lot of drama here and some people are mean, But I have to say that I have found nice people that are on my friends lists moms who struggle and suffer but their hearts melts when it comes to the litle ones. I love you all and keep going strong.

Tags: self motivation

Comments:

onyou...
That was a very nice post...thank you for sharing...I have been down lately and I really enjoyed to read this...thank you for sharing!!!

onyourterms Jul. 7, 2007 at 4:18 PM

ghost...
You're so right. I'm a 14-16,and some days I do get down on myself. I'm lucky though,my husband loved me when I was a size 7,and he loves me just the same-if not more now. By looking at your picture , you are a beautiful girl,and by reading your post-you are a beautiful person.The thing that gets me is that society puts so much pressure on WOMEN to be thin,it's sickening. I mean Nicole Ritchie is FAMOUS for how thin she is!! Rumor has it that she is pregnant now,and if that's true,she won't be so thin for long!!!!! There is a celeb. gossip site called TMZ .com,and today they had this cool section of "What stars would look like if they were real people" It was awesome!!! They had Jennifer Aniston at like 200 lbs,and she actually looked good!!!!!!! If you get a chance go check it out-it was great!!!!! Thanks Again!!!!
     Love, KIM in CT.

ghostgirl21 Jul. 7, 2007 at 4:30 PM

vtmom...

That was very refreshing! Thank you so much!!!  I am currently a size 18 & just recently got into a fight w/my SO the other night b/c I was harping on myself.  He told me how lucky he is to be with me & the only thing he wants me to be is myself and healthy!  If I'm healthy where I'm at....he's completely fine with it....he says that I shouldn't have low self-esteem b/c I am an amazing woman who any man would be lucky to be with.  I am so lucky to have this man in my life to help lift me up and make me smile when all I feel like doing is crying!

I think you're beautiful & I too have found lots of wonderful friends on this site!  I choose to stay far away from those who are negative!

vtmom5boys Jul. 8, 2007 at 11:07 AM

urern...
Your a B!%#$ !!!!!!!!!! I love you girl.................More power to the BIG GIRLS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

urernurse Jul. 8, 2007 at 10:38 PM

imalu...
Wow, I bet if I threw away 4 years of med school whoever paid for it would be pissed.

imalumommy Jul. 8, 2007 at 10:58 PM

truluv
im with u 100%!   Im still stuck on U finishing high shool at 6!!!? Damn u smart!lol and i feel u on weight issue. I was a size 6-7 b4 my son, now im a 10. I dont make it an issue because i can still work it like b4!lol im happy with my weight, if i loose weight, great, if not ....great!  im livin life now cuz    tomorow iz never promised!                      stay up mamma

truluv Jul. 9, 2007 at 3:43 PM

steph...
actually my dad paid for it. and hes not mad at me actually he supports me and hes proud of me becaouse he know that Ill make the best out of my choices.

steph2015 Jul. 9, 2007 at 3:47 PM

prrrp...

Wow your a smart and intelligent young woman. Im glad your one of my friends list : D I like that your positive. I like people that are always positive about themselves and with others : D

prrrpleangel Aug. 4, 2008 at 9:46 PM

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