I'm sorry.  Hugs.

sherriet Jul. 12, 2007 at 9:45 AM

PRAY HARD PRAY HARD, THAT HAPPEN TO ME, ALL I CAN SAY IS PRAY

shefrogz Jul. 12, 2007 at 9:46 AM

good luck!!  maybe he will cheat on her before they get married and you won't have to deal with her.

awelling Jul. 12, 2007 at 9:48 AM

I don't know what to say!  I'am sorry for you and your daughter!  I'll be praying for ya!  Take care

Jamie578 Jul. 12, 2007 at 12:09 PM

Hi!  I do hope that your feeling better!  There is alot I would like to tell you about my own crud of growing up with a dad that cheated the whole 12 years my folks were married and then married the monster that he cheated with!  I don't want to ramble on, you have lots of "friends" that probably give better advice!!  Take care, Jamie

Jamie578 Jul. 12, 2007 at 11:33 PM

I'm so sorry! That really does suck! But life goes on and better he's with her than you. He'll cheat on her as well. Just let it all go and move on. You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you!

cassadydean Jul. 15, 2007 at 5:45 PM

I'm going through the exact same thing.....it dosen't ever seem to get easier.

mishkins Aug. 4, 2007 at 9:31 PM

it's  august how are things going? haven't been on lately busy looking for a new place to live......soon the child support agency will be taking my maintenance and child support out of the butthead so i wont have to deal with him ever again.....gotta go to court to get my back money but he pays the court fees his and mine....hey i can sit there for a few hours as long as i'm not paying for it.  things are looking up for us  after a year of hell

melissa48 Aug. 10, 2007 at 4:30 PM

WOW!  I don't know how you feel but I suspect my husband was finding comfort, not necessarily physical, in the arms or in the company of someone else while I was pregnant too.  He was abusive verbally, emotionally, physically, it was all bad.  We had good times but the bad times are what made me leave when I was pregnant.  Then when I found porn on our computer at home that was the icing on the cake.  I had to go!  I don't get down like that.  I'm not completely square, I just don't get down like that.  I'm sorry to hear about your circumstances.  God will see you through the storm.  If you ever want to talk, send me a message!  Take care.

beautifulme Sep. 11, 2007 at 10:22 PM

Oh, I forgot to say...ppl, women, can be so stupid, not ignorant, stupid at times.  She thinks that she took him away from you because he wanted her or because something was lacking in your relationship.  The reality of it is that he portraited weak characteristics, being selfish especially while you were doing one of the greatest things in this world (having his baby) and while she doesn't think he'll do it to her he will!  That's the craziest thing that ppl don't realize.  If he leaves me for you, he will cheat on you for someone else.  It is not an overnight cure that is how "he or she" is and ppl always think they are "special" and they are the cure and have something that you didn't which is not at all true.  You go girl!  Stand strong and be confident.  Love thyself!

beautifulme Sep. 11, 2007 at 10:25 PM