who do i believe?

[LovetheCards]

okay, i keep seing on "MY" computer that someone has been going to porn sights. i have two men that live here and they both DENY!!!!!! My husband and my husband's cousin. i have confrronted my husband and he says it is not him.i have confronted my husband's cousin several times and he always says that it is not him. for the first time tonight i believe him. what should i do?

[menopausemom]

Jul. 15, 2007 at 3:21 AM WELL SISTER LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING,I'VE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 17 YRS.WE HIDE NOTHING FROM EACH OTHER.MY HUBBY'S NICK NAME IS-"PORN KING"AT MY AGE PORN IS A-O.K IN MY BOOK,THEN HE'S NOT BOTHERING ME!!!!!ANYWAY,YOUR COUSIN IS NOT MARRIED TO YOU,SO HE HAS NO REASON TO LIE TO YOU.LOOKS LIKE HUBBY'S BEEN CAUGHT!!!!!!!

[cybonan]

Jul. 16, 2007 at 8:14 PM i don't think porn is a big deal.  at least he's not running around.  tell him you wanna watch too.  even if you have no interest in doing so,  it'll be a hoot just to see his expression.  good luck.

[prdmom0406]

Jul. 21, 2007 at 9:14 AM Sorry to hear about your dilemma here...I've been through something similar to this also with my husband and friends that we had living with us at the time except it wasn't with the computer it was with ordering porn off the tv.  My husband told me that it wasn't him and I come to find out that it wasn't him it was our friends but they stuck me with the bill for it...go figure.  But I would just ask him why he felt like he had to hide it from you and if he is into that sort of thing why not tell you about it.  I wasn't big on that stuff at first either but it is better then going out and cheating on you with someone.  And I agree with menopausemom your cousin isn't married to you so why would he have to lie about it.  Hope you have some luck with this...Good luck.