Wheres daddy???

[Staysi]

Well my boyfriend just dumped me over nothing. I mean hes not the biological father and idk what to do. I just dont want to ever look my daughter in the eyes and have to tell her why her daddy didnt want her.

How crual can u be? How can Bryan (the guy who got me pregnant) tell me he wants nothing to do with his lil girl? His new girlfriend doesnt seem to mind. BUt I'm only 15 and I've been going through this pregnancy with out any support.

This is life for a 15 year old being pregnant.

At school every one looks at u and calls u a slut. And they dont care if u hear it. When u get called out to the office cause ur mom is there to pic u up for a doctors apointment every one knows what its for so they fucking stare. They all just stare. Some people even start rumours about u. Nice isnt it? They will say how many guys u supposably had sex with and how no one is there for u cause no one knows who the daddy is. Some will even bring u to the side and ask u whats up trying to be a friend and then they go and tell EVERY ONE!

Teachers are no better. They will look at u differently. They try not to but they do. And in health when the sex-ed teacher talks about being pregnant ever one looks at u. And then u get to hear a bunch of trash from them about what a mistake ur kid is.

And in ur mind the whole time ur just so in rages because ur kid is not a mistake! Yeah its going to be hard but that does not make ur kid a mistake.

And I go through all of this all by myself. Wheres the daddy? Psh probably at his new womans house telling her what I whore I am and thats how he knows its not his kid. But deep in his mind he knows hes the only guys Ive had sex with and he knows that he has a daughter. But in her eyes he doesnt exist I wonder if he ever asks him self

Wheres daddy?

[pinky030]

Jul. 16, 2007 at 2:35 PM

I'm so sorry sweetie...stay strong things will get better

I promise you

ok?

[tanks_girl]

Jul. 24, 2007 at 9:40 PM I don't know how hard this is for a 15 year old but  I was a young mother to. I have 3 kids. I can tell you by what I know to do is your going to have to take him to court then get a paranity test and stick him with child support. You are going to have to get your revenge. It wont make you feel better but very soon you will no longer be a kid but a woman and a mother. You can't do this on your own. I know how JCHS is. I went to school there and I got the same looks. I don't have anything to do with Chanlders dad but he don't either. HE is supposed to get him every other weekend but he don't. You will be fine with the love and support with your family. Does his mom know? His mom knows then she will be in trouble to. Keep me posted and let me know what goes on with you and I hope the best for you!

[mommy2be101]

Jul. 31, 2007 at 7:23 AM awww hun stay stong everything will get better. I remember some of that after my "friends" told everyone a bunch of crap. That happend to me before. I hope all is well with you though.

[Mommadukes46]

Mar. 20, 2008 at 10:03 PM hey i kinda know how you feel. i was 19 when i got pregnant, it wasnt as hard as you have it because your still in highschool but i was always told i look young for my age so when people saw me walking around with a huge belly and knew i was pregnant i would hear some rude stuff i guess cuz they all thought i was some younger girl who got knocked up by accident. i still get looks and comments when im out somewhere with my son and people look at me..the one i thought was the funniest was from some older woman in the store she said "its nice that his babysitter loves him so much and takes him out places" the look on her face after i said he was my son was priceless. I know its easier said then done but you just have to be strong and let people say whatever they want. people are going to talk regardless of what you say so if they are going to be close minded like that then let them be and dont pay them any mind. you know in your heart that you love your child and thats all that matters.