Matthew keeps calling me. He wants me to send him money. I love my boy Matt so much. I miss him so much. I want to be there for him, but I can not enable him. He needs to get a job. He wants money for the WARP tour. I am not sure what this is. All I know is that it is a lot of bands. I assume it is secular bands. He probably would not go to see Christian bands. Anyway, I don't mind him going, but he usually spends the money I send him to get high. He also knows he can get money from me instead of getting a job. His father, Jeff, who he lives with, gives him money and he just uses it to get high. His purpose in life is to be the one who makes marijuana legal. Wow! Where did I go wrong?
I can not give him money. I want to help him. I want him to do things and have fun, but I just can not enable him.
I want Matthew back home. I miss him. I want him to be the good boy he once was.
Connie
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Your doing the right thing. My son Timothy is not my husbands blood child..his real father or as I call him The Sperm Donor, Adam, has 3 children in all who he does not see, pay child suppor for, Adam has not seen my son Timothy since he was 1 year old. Adam spends all his time sleeping and doing drugs...and constantly is supported by his mother and his grandmother, he needs a lesson in what life is really about!
Mom_of_2_Kids Jul. 20, 2007 at 11:48 AM