What gives her the right???

[survivor2005]

Ok, I get it, Cafemom allows us our 'freedom of speech', but what gives ppl the right to personally email ppl who are in a certain group and disvalue their freedom of religion? Why can't u negative ppl mind ur own business and stay on ur own side of cafemom that loves negativity (hint, hint: ur anti-nameless group!)

Ok, here's the situation, (no it's not Fresh Prince lyrics), both my mom and I are Cafemom members here. I told her all about the support I get here and the great groups and she decided to sign up. She doesnt check or post often cuz she is still learning. No one knos who my mom is b/c she has allowed me my freedom to not feel like I have to hide anything I want to say for her benefit. She's not even my friend on here. She was hoping to reconnect w/old pals and make new friendships and support.

Ok, this anti-nameless group (trying to be fair to them) was started by some angered woman who denied my access to her group b/c I belong to groups that contradict her purpose (which is why i applied, I wanted to make sure ppl were not being mislead by a single minded individual full of hatred). in my denial note though. I found that strange as if shen took offense to me simply asking to be in a group. She was quite nasty! Well coincidentally, this person also messaged my mother today (reminder: my mom is not on my friends list or in a group I am in) preaching that she belongs to this group that she is against and said some things that tried to intimidate my 52 yr old mom. (I kno, how rediculously childish!). There is no possible way for her to kno who my mom is on here b/c I have never mentioned here here.

I am assuming anyone who belongs to groups she is against, she has also messaged. I am asking that if you received this message and feel it was inappropriate and should not have contacted u for any reason simply for belonging to a religion or group, then pls report her to cafemom.

JUST B/C U DONT AGREE W/A GROUP, RELIGION, OR PERSON DOES NOT GIVE U THE RIGHT TO MESSAGE PPL WHO U CLAIM TO DESPISE JUST TO START TROUBLE W/THOSE MINDING THEIR OWN BUSINESS. STARTING AN ANTI CAMPAIGN IN ONE THING BUT DONT PERSONALLY MESSAGE PPL WHO U KNO WILL NOT CARE ABOUT UR GROUP OR ITS PURPOSE!!!!

THANKS TO THIS PERSON MY MOM HAS DECIDED TO LEAVE CAFEMOM B/C SHE FEELS THIS IS NOT A SAFE PLACE FOR THOSE TO REALLY BE WHO U ARE, BELONG WHERE YOU CHOOSE, OR BEFRIEND THOSE WHO ARE LIKE U.   My mom is a sweet woman who many older moms here would have grown to love.

 so thanks for losing a great friend to those who may have benefit from a genuine, honest, person. And yes, I reported both messages to Cafemom.

 

[survivor2005]

Jul. 21, 2007 at 10:40 PM

 

                  i am so sorry about this,,,   I have left and come back because of someone childish religon stuff...    Please tell your mom that we are not like these religous fanatics and she will truly find some great friends here..She just needs to learn how to weed out the bad ones....

              Some cafemoms just need to go find another place for their religous propaganda....