Apparently...I have gone about all this the wrong way...

[momx7]

I guess I should have been more like my hubby's ex wife...Have a bunch of kids with a few different responsible guys and get rid of them all the time...while there NEW wives take care of MY kids. It seems to be the only way I would have ever gotten a break from my kids. Am I jealous...HELL YES I AM!!! Am I pissed off...HELL YA!

I always end up having my plans messed with when I actually DO get to make them. Thank you EX WIFE!!! She was supposed to take my sk's back tomorrow, because I am having a spa party/girls night in/out party. Of course she came up with some bullshit excuse for why she couldn't, so now I am stuck with them...hubby and my oldest son race go-karts so they won't be here. Hubby said he will just take them with him, but that is spending more money we don't have...my ex husband was supposed to take my kids for the weekend, but as usual, he screwed that up...how convenient for him!! I am just so sick of being the ex-wives built in babysitter so she can go whore around with the flavor of the week...I am sick of never getting a break form my own kids...don't get me wrong, I love them all very much, but I need a damn break!! My hubby works his ass off, so I feel guilty if I don't let him have his time...or ask for some time for myself. Yes, I would say I am jealous of ex wife cause she actually has a life...thanks to ME! I am pissed at my ex husband because he is just a freakin loser who only comes around when it is convenient for him...I feel like running away today and telling them all to kiss my ass...I'll be back when I have had a long enough break...a few days should do the trick...

Sorry for the poor me post...just feeling really angry and I really need to get away...

[tlilfrog]

Jul. 27, 2007 at 4:20 PM

[Rockenmooki]

Jul. 27, 2007 at 4:21 PM *sigh*  I am sorry for you!  I know you are just venting and don't need any advice or opinions, so I am just here to say,  I FEEL YA!

[Cerdwin]

Jul. 27, 2007 at 4:23 PM I'm sorry, it sounds like you need to take both your ex and his ex back to court and get full custody of the kids so that you get more support. Either they want to see their kids when they are supossed to or they don't get to see them at all. I know you need a break but that really sucks for the kids to get their hopes up and have the Ex's mess it up for them. I wish it were different. I hope you get your break!!

[Shannonram]

Jul. 27, 2007 at 5:16 PM

Your right you have every reason to be pissed!!!

[tracy20]

Jul. 27, 2007 at 10:04 PM yes you should be pissed!i know how much you were looking forward to this weekend.gosh you and your husband alone or together need to just...b-r-e-a-t-h-e-!!i love daniel dearly but somedays like today, you need to just go outside at night,like i do, and just sit and relax and breathe.just watch out for the rain drops!!and a drink.

[spacrazymom]

Jul. 28, 2007 at 1:21 AM

Well, i will give you some extra pampering! Dont worry it will all work out and i am sure we will have a great time!

 But i do feel ya on the whole issue, wouldn't want to be in t hat situaiton ever!!

See ya soon!

[toliver1106]

Jul. 29, 2007 at 9:05 AM Sorry to hear that! I really hope things get better for ya

[thill06]

Jul. 29, 2007 at 8:41 PM Hope things get better, trust me I feel ya!  I have problems with my ex husband right now and I have step kids who stay with me full time, they have not heard from their mother in over a year.