im so very much confused

[BRITTANYCAFE619]

so i broke up wit my bf and started dating this other guy . ok so my ex came over very unexpectedly thank God the other guy was not there anyway he came wit all my favs my favorite movie (save the last dance), candy(snickers, gummy worms, starburst, and reese cups),and food pasta. and beg for me to take him back well i did and we made up if u know wat i mean lol. but anyway here is the problem i didn't brake up wit the other guy i did stop talking and seeing him for like a week. but the the other guy showed up unexpectly the other day i was so scared. i dont know wat to do cause i love my bf but this other guy when i am around him i feel so good .

but even though i got back 2gether wit my bf we were argueing cause he promised to come see me the next day and never came i dont know wat to do i cant seem to let him go is my love blinding me? i still havent broke up wit the other guy am i saving him in case something goes wrong wit my bf? i dont want to be hurt and i don't want to hurt anyone else

[anniextsmom]

Aug. 7, 2007 at 12:36 AM If you don't want to hurt anyone else, then don't.  Being a grown up means having to have difficult and uncomfortable experiences and conversations.  Your love is not what's blinding you.  If you do in fact love either or both of these men, or if you even care about them in the slightest, you owe it to them to be honest with them.  You gotta roll higher than this.

[xdipsomaniacx]

Aug. 7, 2007 at 12:36 AM it's hurting the other guy to "Sve him in case something goes wrong with the boyfriend". If he's second choice, he deserves to at least know that. It's not fair to play games.

[UniversalWoman]

Aug. 17, 2007 at 11:54 AM Well this is a sticky situation. I would have to break it off with the other guy b/c you don't want to string him along. Since you choose to get back with your ex there is a possibility the other guy may not be there if things don't work out between you and your ex. Those problems that caused you and your ex to break up are still there always remember that. Just sit back and think about the whole situation and you will get your answer. Good Luck

[yungmommy15]

Sep. 19, 2007 at 1:06 AM I think you should stay with your boyfriend and tell the other guy whats going on!Cause I know it's nice and all but it won't be right to stay with both just because you feel comfortable around that guy if you in love with your boyfriend thats the one you deserve....just tell the other guy you want to just be friends for awhile if he can't settle for that oh well!