maybe that why i do things different or havent done them at all.i never went to parties when in high school, never went to a prom, i dont wear make up now or before. the first time i dated i was 18 yrs old, only had 3 dates before i meet my husband.i am very forgetfull but i do remember things but my kids birthdays just not what day of the week it is or the date of the month.most people think i am strange i dont like to be in a large group of people. i like  to be with only my kids and the dogs and our cat. i do talk to them the dogs and the cat. but hey they listen dont talk back. but over all i am just a little different then most. people are

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Aug. 10, 2007 at 8:21 PM I think you are cool, not strange at all

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Aug. 10, 2007 at 8:23 PM Your fine! Just a little shy but over all if your happy with your life you must have a great self esteem and a lot of happiness in your life.   I never wore make up my whole life. I never felt the need to.

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Aug. 10, 2007 at 8:29 PM

WOW that is great to hear. You walk to a different beat of the drum. Well hun we all have our unique querks. But that is what makes you different. I am like that in my own way. Yet over time things have changed. There are times I dont mind a crowd and other times I want privacy extremely. Times I want only my kids and other times I dont mind an extra child or two or a dozen. SO be happy and be yourself.

Have a great day!:)

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Aug. 10, 2007 at 8:44 PM I don't see anything strange about you. I've met lots of people with very similar qualities same as I've met lots that are different. We're all just people and not following the norm is just fine. :)

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Aug. 10, 2007 at 8:53 PM what planet are we from then? because i am just like u!!! i never went to my prom. i only dated 3 men before my hubby. i talk to my kids hamster. and i don't like large crowds either and i sometimes prefer being at home than anywhere else!!! lol! we are normal just maybe a bit reserved at times!!! we have alot in common!!!!  except i have a makeup problem.......i love makeup!! i have tons of eyeshadows and lipsticks!!!! :)

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Aug. 10, 2007 at 8:57 PM holy cow, we are definitely from the same planet, but, now im worried.....are we legal or illegal? yikes

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Aug. 10, 2007 at 9:32 PM

Ok... are you trying to bring down us strange folks... sounds like there are quite a few of us out there.  We differ in our high school years, but I can go back in my life to see what made me that way I was back then.  I agree about the large groups...  I hate them, I hate small groups also...  I have a people issue where if I am in a room with too many people I get anxiety attacks, if I am in an open space with too many people I get the same thing, but it is the people, because you could put me in a small closet and I would be fine, unless there is another person in that closet.  Animals.... is it not ok to talk to them???  My 2 dogs get an ear full from me, and my cats... well, they know some of my deepest secrets.  Make-up??? what's that?  I threw out the only eye shadow I have sometime last year, I have no idea why I still had it, it was from high school (20 some years ago).  My sister seen it and told me that it gets bad if it sits too long.  Both my mother and sister get into the make up and nail polish, but even polish was not on my interest list... and I am not a tom-boy per say.

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Aug. 11, 2007 at 12:10 AM

OK, thats not so bad. I personally keep to myself a little because everyone has hurt me. Your just the way you are comfortable being!

Being yourself is the only way to live!!


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Aug. 11, 2007 at 12:42 AM

When I took my vacation from work I stayed home. Read a ton of books. Sat on the porch and watched the sunset. It was the most relaxing vacation I have ever had. Home is my favorite place to be.

There is no normal hun.     Every one of us marches to a different drummer. That is what makes this world to interesting. 

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Aug. 11, 2007 at 8:26 AM Like most in the post I do not think it strange that you do these things. I myself like to stay home, don't wear make-up, and talk to my pets! If I didn't talk to my pets ,some days I would go crazy. My grandma used tell me "if everyone was the same, it would be a boring world." I guess she was right!

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