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[lovealwayzashes]

WELL MY BABY IS NOW ONE AND SPERM DONNOR HAS NEVER DONE ANYTHING FOR HER SINCE SHES BEEN BORN, NEVER GOTTEN HER ANYTHING FOR HER FIRST CHRISTMAS, FIRST BIRTHDAY NOTHING, IN A YEAR HE HAS ONLY SENT ME 60 BUCKS WHICH IN NO WAY PAYS FOR MUCH OF ANYTHING COMPARED TO WHAT IVE DONE, IVE EVEN PAID FOR ALL HER PICTURES IN WHICH I SEND HIM SOME AND SEND SOME TO HIS FAMILY WHO HAVE NEVER ONCE EVEN THANKED ME FOR DOING SO;  NOW TO MY POINT IVE STARTED TO DATE THIS GUY WHO I ADORE MORE THAN ANYTHING AND HE LOVES CHLOE AND IN THE SHORT TIME WEVE BEEN DATING HAS DONE WAY MORE FOR HER THEN HER REAL DADDY, HE SAYS THAT I SHOULD COMPLETELY X CHRIS OUT OF HER LIFE AND NEVER WORRY ABOUT HIM AGAIN BECAUSE HE WANTS TO TAKE CARE OF US.  I REALLY COULD CARELESS ABOUT WHAT CHRIS THINKS BECAUSE HES NEVER DONE ANYTHING FOR HER BUT IN SOME WAYS I FEEL THAT MY DAUGHTER SHOULD BE THE ONE TO MAKE THAT DECISION WHEN SHE GROWS UP RATHER THEN ME, BUT THEN I GUESS I HOLD HOPE HE WILL GROW UP AND CHANGE  I WANT WHATS BEST FOR MY DAUGHTER AND RIGHT NOW HER REAL DADDY ISNT ANY GOOD FOR HER ;

[Noahs_mommy0506]

Aug. 12, 2007 at 3:01 PM

My son's father isn't in his life either....its hard to do it by myself at only 18 but i put it like this..i rather have my son with no father than a bad one who's not going to be there for him....I would say if he is not there now he wont be there in the future get him out of your life.

[Iwuvmyboys]

Aug. 12, 2007 at 3:04 PM I was in the same boat.   My son Cody is 14 now and his dad didnt pay a dime until he was 6.   It is frustrating but the only thing you can do is extend the offer to Chris to be part of Chloe's life.   You cant force him to.   Continue to send pics and let him know he has the option to see her.    Cody's sees his dad maybe once a year.    It is what it is.   It sounds like things are moving in a positive direction for you so go with it.   Dont dwell on what Chris does or doesnt do.

[asmith1984]

Aug. 16, 2007 at 5:57 PM

one day maybe chris will grow up if not just keep proving to him that you are better then him by sending him all the pics and stuff but when she gets older and understands what all you have done for her and he hasnt then she will deside if she wants to send him anymore or even have him in her life at all you never know he may want something to do with her and she tells him to fuck off lol dont worry you are doing great  ok and if your boyfriend wants to be her dad let him just don t let him adopt her that way chris doesnt completly get off the hook