I love my daughter.  I have a great life, I'm happy.....well kinda.  I'm happy being a mother but I'm not happy with my relationship.  My partner and I get along so well.  We have fun, we can be ourselves with each other.  We almost never argue.  One problem...we're not in-love.  I don't know if i should consider myself lucky that we get along, or do i deserve to be in-love.  I wish it wasn't so important to me.  I have so many other things to be happy about but because i love 2 be in-love and I'm not I always feel unhappy anyway.  We haven't been in-love in years now.  I'm just to afraid to start over with someone else.  I guess somewhere deep down I believe no one else will actually be in-love with ME either.  Maybe this is as good as it gets

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kstrick
Aug. 21, 2007 at 2:59 AM For one never settle for less this is weird because im going through the samething I loved someone but was not in love and i was unhappy and we tried and tried to make it work so i let it go it feels like a ton of bricks has been lifted off of me. For once in six years i feel untangled its all about the ME time i can exhale. You need to sit back and step outside yourself and look and figure out whats good for you and lil diva  You dont have to be with someone just because thats what you use to and baby girl I can bet my net worth that someone else can love you and be everything you need and so much more

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reade...
Sep. 6, 2007 at 2:21 AM Never settle for less than you deserve. Everyone deserves to love and be loved in return. Being comfortable is nice, and love can be hard, but in the end true love is really worth it.

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JHjel...
Nov. 27, 2007 at 11:39 PM Im going to have to agree. You deserve the whole package, to love and be loved to be IN love and be happy atleast as much as any person can be. You need whats right for you so you can be a happy and complete mom for your lil girl.

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