A New Life

[karina_0518]

Well ALOT has happened since I last wrote. I had an interesting relationship with this Haitian pothead and he ended up getting me pregnant. The first thing we both thought when we first found out was when and where to get an abortion, but somehow my mother found out about it and intervened. She took me to this Pregnancy Crisis Center where they showed me videos of how abortions are done and why it's so wrong and that's when I realized that I just couldn't do it. And of course the father of the baby didn't like that idea. So for the entire pregnancy he didn't talk to me at all and wanted to deny that the baby was his. So he basically let me know that he didn't want to be a part of the baby's life and that is his loss. Meanwhile I started talking to an old crush/good friend of mine, Steven, again and we started dated when I was 3 months pregnant. Steven's an amazing guy and the love of my life. He was there for me throughout the entire pregnancy and even for the birth of my little baby boy. We've been dating for 7 months now and I couldn't be happier. :) Xander Javier Carvallo was born November 2, 2006 at 11:38a.m. in Wellington, FL at Wellington Regional Medical Center. He was 8lbs. 8ozs. and 21 inches long. He was born with full head of shiny straight jet black hair and gorgeous brown eyes. I'm inlove again! So now I'm living my life with my two loves, Xander and Steven, and nothing in this world can bring me down right now.

[40isfun]

Nov. 25, 2006 at 4:57 PM Congratulations on your new baby boy!  It's so good you had your mom there to support you.  I tell you mom's are irreplaceable!  I'm also happy you've found someone to share your life with and I hope things keep looking up for you! 

[cassandra17]

Nov. 25, 2006 at 9:31 PM Congrats!!! Hope your life is full of more happy and special moments such as this one.

[shaebar90]

Nov. 25, 2006 at 10:35 PM Congratulations!  I hope you have many more wonderful moments and that everything continues beautifully for you and yours!

[mamabliss]

Nov. 26, 2006 at 3:42 AM Congratulations Karina and tell Steven what my husband always says: if he feeds the baby enough, he'll start to look just like him. LOL  (My daughter is my husband's step-daughter but when ever they go out, people swear she looks just like him. *shrug* Not to my eyes, but hey...)

[JBFilm]

Jun. 8, 2007 at 6:30 PM

Wow i basically went threw the same EXACT thing except i didn't meet someone else but im glad i made the choices i did. Thanks for adding me it would be nice to have someone to talk to that actually understands.