Well ok I am 20 yrs old. My husband is 31...Why does he complain that I don't go out?! Is it too hard to believe that someone my age DOES NOT like to go to clubs, get drunk. or all that jazz? Am I not normal? Am I depressed? Am I....WEIRD? Come on for real am I? Yes I have no friends after I got married and now with a kid? YEAH RIGHT! I don't feel very good about me self physically right now I just had a baby for God's sake!

Or...! Is he right everyone my age should WANT to do this stuff. I'm I missing out on something? I am confused!

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Aug. 24, 2007 at 2:17 PM

hi there!

i'm the same way never liked the clubbing scene nor going out and doing spontanous things. i had my first baby when i was 20. before that never was really a wild youngster. now im 27 a mother of 3 and i don't feel like i missed out on a whole lot. i see myself more of a mature person now that i have had my babies and outlook on life is very diiferent are we weird i don't know.

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Oct. 4, 2007 at 10:44 PM believe me your not missing out on too much....unless getting very tipsy and acting silly at the club sounds like fun.  i did my share of clubbing and it wasnt all that

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