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My daughter is sick and I had to break her heart :(
- Aug 26, 2007 at 9:41 PM
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My sister is moving and just told us this past week. I didn't find out until Weds. night which was my dd's first day of 4th grade. They are moving next weekend so this only gave me a weeks notice to give Samantha. Her and my niece were both babysat by my mom since they were born, so they're close as sisters.
When my ex dropped her off had to tell her since I didn't want to ruin her first week of school. She cried so hard yesterday when I told her it broke my heart. She is crying some more tonight as we saw Jessi for what is presumed to be the last time for a while. I am having such a had time with all this myself. I hate my sister for doing this to my family. I am losing a niece and twp nephews because of her selfishness. She doesn't have to move so far but I guess her one friend is more important than her entire family and all her other friends here.
She SAYS she'll visit once a month, but I doubt it will happen. We'll probably have to go there if she lets us know where to go. This sucks so much. I found out that she had planned this since she was pregnant with the boys (9 weeks tomorrow) and lied to us when she went to "visit" her friend. She went there to find a new home and try to get a job. Up here she kept saying she couldn't work, WTF, why not try to get one here.
We have done so much for her, but she tells people we do nothing. Hell, I am going to let her come over to do homework on my PC tomorrow and watch Dakota while she takes Nathan to the cardiologist. We have done everything for her and she won't admit it. My dad went back to work to make sure his grandkids get what they need. He's 66 and not in the best of health no way should he be working. My parents, BF, and I have done so much only to have her do what she does best, run and hide.
When my ex dropped her off had to tell her since I didn't want to ruin her first week of school. She cried so hard yesterday when I told her it broke my heart. She is crying some more tonight as we saw Jessi for what is presumed to be the last time for a while. I am having such a had time with all this myself. I hate my sister for doing this to my family. I am losing a niece and twp nephews because of her selfishness. She doesn't have to move so far but I guess her one friend is more important than her entire family and all her other friends here.
She SAYS she'll visit once a month, but I doubt it will happen. We'll probably have to go there if she lets us know where to go. This sucks so much. I found out that she had planned this since she was pregnant with the boys (9 weeks tomorrow) and lied to us when she went to "visit" her friend. She went there to find a new home and try to get a job. Up here she kept saying she couldn't work, WTF, why not try to get one here.
We have done so much for her, but she tells people we do nothing. Hell, I am going to let her come over to do homework on my PC tomorrow and watch Dakota while she takes Nathan to the cardiologist. We have done everything for her and she won't admit it. My dad went back to work to make sure his grandkids get what they need. He's 66 and not in the best of health no way should he be working. My parents, BF, and I have done so much only to have her do what she does best, run and hide.
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