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Would this push you over the edge? (VENT)
- Oct 5, 2007 at 12:18 AM
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Ok, so for like 2 weeks a buddy of my SO has been living here. He's sleeping on the couch and drives them to work in the AM. Well... I have been cleaning up after him and cooking for him too. I feel like I am losing my mind. I can't spend quality time with SO b/c his buddy is always around. The only time I do get time with SO is at night in the bed and that last maby 10 min, then SO is out like a light. I'm left laying there with unanswered questions and things I wanted to talk about. UGH!
Then tonight SO got off at 6PM. He didn't come home till 9PM. They sat around the shop DRINKING and talking. I was soo mad when I found out his buddy was driving them home and had had a few beers to drink. What part of don't drink and drive do people not get? Then when they finally get home. I get "where's my dinner?" WTF? You didn't come home when you said so I fixed DD dinner and put her to bed.
Well...Then I get "fix me a sandwich," I can't, b/c you two refused to come home I can't go to the store now b/c it's closed and I refused to drive all the way to freekin Wal-mart just for ham. So thanks to them they wont have a lunch for tomorrow and I said screw it on dinner for them. I am soo sick of it.
Get this! The other AM I woke up and had to pee. Well.. when I get to the bathroom there is crap on the seat and the bathroom faucet is running. WTF again? I know it wasn't SO and DD isn't potty trained and is gated in her room at night. I was soo mad.
Then yesterday morning his buddy walks into the kitchen b/4 they leave and grabs a beer. Who in the world drinks beer in the morning b/4 work?? I said No! You put that back, it's 6 AM and there is no way in Hell your walking out that door with a beer first thing in the AM.
SO tells me not to fuss b/c his buddy is paying me to cook and clean up after him. I don't care if it was a million bucks, I refuse to continue to clean up after this guy anymore. He needs to GO and GO NOW! I want my house and my sanity back.
Then tonight SO got off at 6PM. He didn't come home till 9PM. They sat around the shop DRINKING and talking. I was soo mad when I found out his buddy was driving them home and had had a few beers to drink. What part of don't drink and drive do people not get? Then when they finally get home. I get "where's my dinner?" WTF? You didn't come home when you said so I fixed DD dinner and put her to bed.
Well...Then I get "fix me a sandwich," I can't, b/c you two refused to come home I can't go to the store now b/c it's closed and I refused to drive all the way to freekin Wal-mart just for ham. So thanks to them they wont have a lunch for tomorrow and I said screw it on dinner for them. I am soo sick of it.
Get this! The other AM I woke up and had to pee. Well.. when I get to the bathroom there is crap on the seat and the bathroom faucet is running. WTF again? I know it wasn't SO and DD isn't potty trained and is gated in her room at night. I was soo mad.
Then yesterday morning his buddy walks into the kitchen b/4 they leave and grabs a beer. Who in the world drinks beer in the morning b/4 work?? I said No! You put that back, it's 6 AM and there is no way in Hell your walking out that door with a beer first thing in the AM.
SO tells me not to fuss b/c his buddy is paying me to cook and clean up after him. I don't care if it was a million bucks, I refuse to continue to clean up after this guy anymore. He needs to GO and GO NOW! I want my house and my sanity back.
Rachel
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