Someone posted in my AP group last night talking about another Cafemom on here who's profile she happened to stumble upon and called her out by name and then proceeds to talk trash about her and her life style going completely on assumptions that she made without having any real reason for doing it. She knows nothing about her except that she places high value on her marriage, her daughter is adopted and her screen name implies to her that she would choose her husband over her children.

She said things like...

How could you put your hubby before your child?!?!? I read about her though and saw that her child isn't her biological child though and it seemed a little more clear I guess. Maybe since her child was adopted she lacks the maternal instincts and special bond that real moms have. I just don;t get how somebody could put a full grown independent adult before a baby that depends completly on his/her mother. Maybe there is a reason that lady couldn't naturally have children!!!

Then goes on to post this....

I believe the father should love his child and want the child to be first. I would be so angry if my hubby thought he should eat before our child and felt his needs were more important. Women that put the man before their dependent child are the ones that when the man does do something to hurt the child and the child tells the mom about it they don't believe the child. And that is wrong!!!! My hubby wouldn't do anything but if my child ever said he did I would believe my child and I would leave my husband.

Not that I care what her opinion is on women that put there husbands first. Every person has a right to their opinion. I guess what I am getting at is that she knows absolutely nothing about the woman that she posted this post about. If this post had been about women in general that have that kind of lifestyle then whatever but it really erks me that she called one women by name just for the meanness of it. And that out of the 112 women that looked at the post I seem to be the only one who has a problem about the way she went about stating her opinion. I sometimes feel like I am back in elementary school when I am on this site. You would think that being mothers would make some of us grow up but it obviously doesn't work for everyone....

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