I have tried and tried and i am just plain tired!!!!

[Aaronmom79]

Today i took my son to go and get his christmas pictures done at the mall. After the picture taking i was planning on taking my son to the park so i stepped out of my selfess mode and put on a parent mode and call my son father to let him know that i was taking Aaron to the park and invited him to come spend a little time with him. He basically got upset because i said that he could spend a few minutes with him, well basically after that i just got pissed off vecause whenever i try being the nice person and deal with him as the father of my son he turns into a jacka## that i hate dealing with.Anyways he goes on to say he will spend time with Aaron on his time and that he was not seeing him today..well he already knows that my son is not going to the apt where he lives with his girlfriend and 4 kids that they have no problem living alone in the apt by theirselves while they go out and run the streets. Ijust basically put out to him that i done dealing with his anger twrds me that interferes with us being parents so until we receive papers to go to court me nor my son will have nothing to do with him..The part that hurts the most is when i look at my son i wonder if he feels the neglect and stupity that his father shows..His father expresses his love for me and how much he misses me and all so i know partly that his why he acts the way he does toward me cause he is jealous, but i hate for him not to be involved in our son's life. but like i say this is his lost not my son

[mommynotready]

Dec. 25, 2007 at 10:40 PM Gurl i know how it is i cant stand my babydaddy do u know today is christmas and that man hasnt called my baby im soo frustrated with him but i am fine with it becuz my baby got the best christmas he could get and he was so happy and that is all that matters too me just remeber that ur baby is not getting hurt at all cuz whn he gets older and relizes the type of man his dad is he will be the one feeling dum soo jsut keep ya head up gurl cuz everything happens for a reason

[preciousblood5]

Aug. 27, 2008 at 9:39 AM

they all a pain i am going through so much with my kid father also i am try to bring in to court for child support because i am tired of him not taking care of his kids them