well , we have just recently found out that our first adoption isnt going to go through, not for reasons of the mother but because of the father, he is the one that wanted her to abort and if she would have kept it he was going to sign over his rights, well 6 weeks before the baby is born he changes his mind, not her but him. My husband and i were really hurt, but we know that this child god did not intend for us to have, and we need to be more prepared for the child he does want us to have. My husband and I have decided were going to become foster parents, we have started to look at the classes for our state requirements and started to fill out the license application. So we will see how things go from there. so yea that is pretty much everything in a nutshell.

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Nov. 8, 2007 at 4:43 PM You go chick!!! I'm here if you need me!! Just call! Love ya guys, you're the best!!!! Smootches!

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Nov. 10, 2007 at 7:38 PM Hi, i'm Amy a good friend of your sister, Meagan. She's told me about what's been going on. I can't tell you how sorry I am. My prayers and thoughts are with you!

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Nov. 12, 2007 at 1:41 PM Good luck and u will be great foster parents. My grandma did it and i think i will when my kids get older. can't wait to see the pics of he kids. Sorry for the adoption but if this is what god wanted u would have had one so it's all up to him. Maybe u can adopt a foster kid?

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Dec. 16, 2007 at 6:08 PM hi. im sorry for your failed adoption, me and dh just went through one, if you want you can read it onmy page, we are also foster parents but no children yet. your a strong women, and God will bring you and me the child he sees fits us best! ((hugs))

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