He pissed me off

[DatDeal_03]

Last night I was cooking us dinner. I asked my husband to come home so I could finish cokking. Shy wasn't in a good mood and I wasn't going to let her cry. I called back and said please come home cause she won't stop crying and I need to get things done. He said ok,ok, im at the school but I will be on my way home. I said ok but 45min went by so I called back and said where r you but I can hear people in the back ground. So I told him that I didn't care if he ate rocks for dinner because he didn't come home when I asked him to. So I put sky in her swing and took her in the kitchen with me and started to clean up. I turned on the music and I talked to her while I cooked. I even cleaned up the living room. He came home once I was done cooking. He knew I was pissed so he layed on the floor in front of Sky and started to play with her. I fixed my plate and watched tv. After I was done eating, Sky and I took a bath. I put her to sleep and I read my book before bed like always. I didn't say anything to him. He came and got in the bed while I was reading. He put his arms around me and I wanted him to move his hands but he didn't. Before he left for class, he was trying to talk to me. Im still mad so its going to be a long day for him.

[cah75]

Nov. 7, 2007 at 12:58 PM I understand how frustrated you are, but the longer you stay mad, the worse it will be.   I hope you two are able to talk things out.   Maybe if you try to explain how frustrated you are and how it made you feel.  Tell him that you and Shy should be his priority.

[navyjen]

Nov. 7, 2007 at 1:00 PM

Damn girl. Sorry you and he are arguing.   One thing I always try to do with my hubby is never go to bed mad.  We have a rule if something is bothering one of us we always tell the other one.  Then we never hold it against each other.  Communication is key if he knows how you feel and he still does wrong thats when you get mad.   I never want either of us to leave the house mad cause we are not guarenteed a tomorrow.   Hopefully Sky is happier today.    Smile I bet your new hair still looks hot as hell.   Enjoy the day today!!!

 

Jenn

[KaiyasMom]

Nov. 7, 2007 at 1:01 PM I really hope you only cooked enough for you and did not leave any for him!  I had an ex-husband like this.  He would never come home, and didn't even come to our son's first birthday party, at it was at home!  Thus, he is my ex-husband.  Just talk to your husband as cah75 said and tell him how you feel.  And if he doesn't listen, just hit him upside the head with one of the pans you cooked in last night:) (JK)!

[DatDeal_03]

Nov. 7, 2007 at 1:23 PM I was so pissed off that I cooked enough for 4 people. Our communication is very good but sometimes he acts like a little kid. We have a little kid now and its time out for all of that. Each time I got up with Sky last night he was up and rubbing on me and kissing me. When he does right I will talk to him. Lets see if he comes right home today. If he does I will talk to him but if he doesn't well we will have another problem

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