I was like you.......once

I WAS LIKE YOU.......ONCE
if you see me
at the supermarket,
and my child is
screaming,
rolling on the floor
with anger seeping from his pores.
please don't blame me,
I was like you once,

If you are in a restuarant
and my child
throws food and it
hits you in the face,
please, don't be angry,
I can't handle any more rage.

If you see my child
climbing over
a very tall fence
with nothing on
except his hat.
Please don't call the police,
I only looked away for a minute.

If you see me
crying, as you
pull up next to me
at a stop light.
at a busy intersection.
Honk and smile, I need a friend.

If you see me,
running down the street
with curlers in my hair
chasing a small child
who runs so fast, I can't catch him
Help me chase him down.

If my child grabs
your child, or pushes him
or bites or
kicks him, or
says words that make your hair curl.
Please forgive him, and me too.

If you happen to
see us, walking
in your neighbourhood,
or in the malls,
or at the park
Please don't turn away,
I was like you once.

copyright 1999
Sally Meyer

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Cici829
Nov. 13, 2007 at 11:40 PM I comepletely understand what you are going through. I dont have my nephew full time but I understand what autism can do to a child. Caleb(my nephew) hits and does all sorts of things, but he doesnt understand what is right and wrong. He doesnt know what pain means. Its hard to get people to accept your child. The best you can do is to get people to understand and to give your child the love he needs and deserves. God bless you and your family.

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Jodanro
Feb. 5, 2009 at 9:43 AM

Amen Sister :o)

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