Anyone else feel like this?

[luvmyangel22]

Sometimes I feel like no one appreciates what I do.  I work full time, go to school full time, take care of out daughter who is eight months old, cook dinner five nights a week, do the laundry, clean the house....the list goes on and on.  It just seems like no matter how much I clean or how often I clean there is always more to do.  I think it is beginning to get to me.  I love my husband very much he is a good guy but come on how dense do you have to be to notice that I NEED HELP.  I try not to say much because I don't want to nag and start a fight.  Every once in a while I drop hints and he will help for a little while but eventually it goes back to how it was.  SO FRUSTRATED

[alysha414]

Nov. 16, 2007 at 6:32 PM

OMG....I'M WITH YOU ON THAT!  I wrote a post about the same thing.  I seriously feel like a single mom sometimes.  I try not to bitch, because he does work alot...but I can't do everything. 

I'm sorry you're feeling that way too!  My bf's gotten a little better, but we also had a HUGE blowout.  So I don't want you to go through that because it sucked.  My advice would be to tell him how you feel or maybe show him this journal.  Trust me, you'll want to get it off your chest now because I held it in and it just got worse and worse and then I blew up and couldn't take it anymore.  We were also having other issues, but this was one of the biggest ones.

Calmly talk to him about it, don't just drop hints.

 Good Luck, I hope you can resolve it!

[LILKIMMY]

Nov. 25, 2007 at 2:22 PM ahh... my thoughts exactly! I try to do it all but there are times when a little help will go a long way for me! BTW, your baby girl is adorable. I miss my baby girl being that age, one of my fave ages! I live in Texas as well. Happy Holidays!

[midnightkitty20]

Aug. 1, 2011 at 1:59 AM

I Just say deal with it. After being married a long long time like I have you dont care anymore. Hell im a full time working mom at home plus take care of my girls and godson and my man workd a full time Job also. But I do everything cook clean cut grass dust all the walls and baseboards fans etc and still going until about 11pm at night then I put the girls to bed around 7:30 everynight after dinner then i put up lefted over food wash the dishes again and clean before i go to bed.... hard work but I dont tell him anything about it I just let it go......... so advice DEAL WITH IT YOUR A MOTHER