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Follow Up
- Nov 20, 2007 at 9:57 AM
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I want to thank you all for your kind words and prayers.
I am a walking zombie.
Every step is a struggle and every moment you fight tears.
I am copying my babys obit page - there were a lot of people asking what happened and so I will comment on that as well.
On October 24, 2007 - I lost my 7 year old son. He accidentally asphyxiated himself at home. He came in as happy as can be and was talking about my fathers 69 Chevelle and how he wanted it. He went into his room to get ready for a shower and withing 3-5 minutes of silence my life was turned upside down. Screams and fear and heart break could be heard a far distance and my street was lined with EMT, Police, Rescue and chaos. No 7 year old intentionally harms them self randomly and this is all the more reason to know what your children are seeing and hearing everywhere they go. Stores and tv and schools and other children expose even the most sheltered and protected child to so much. Please protect, hover over, talk to and know every little thing your kids do. This is the hardest most terrifying and painful experience in life. Please hold on to your children. There are no signs of the possible scary or bad things that could happen. There will never be answers to why or how. I wish that no one ever suffers this tragedy and pain.That day was like any other day and now every day I walk around like a zombie. Keep me and my other 3 sons and husband in your prayers. I thank you all truly from the bottom of my broken heart. Thoughit is broken your prayers and kid words are there. Thank you!
Enjoyed cars and superheroes
| Enocencio Kintia Graves, 7, of Vineland passed away suddenly Wednesday, Oct. 24, 2007, at home. Enocencio was born in Washington Township and lived in Vineland all his life. Enocencio attended second grade in Cunningham Elementary School and enjoyed cars and superheroes, especially Spider-Man. Survivors include his parents, William and Margarita (Perez) Borday of Vineland; three brothers, Rodolfo Perez, Kwan Evans and R' Mand Borday, all at home; maternal grandparents, Carlos Perez and Vita Ross of Sicklerville; paternal grandmother, Onelia Borday of Vineland; uncle and godparents, Hector and Janette Arocho of Vineland; aunts, Christina Ross of Philadelphia and Flor Castellano of Lindenwold; and several cousins. Pallbearers include William Borday, Hector Arocho Sr., Hector Arocho Jr., Carlos Perez and Rodolfo Perez. A funeral Liturgy will be held at 10 a.m. Tuesday from Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, 410 S. Eighth St., Vineland. Viewing hours are 7 to 9 p.m. Monday and 8:30 to 9:30 a.m. Tuesday from the Wainwright-Bernhardt Funeral Home, 1024 E. Landis Ave., Vineland. Burial will follow in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Vineland.In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the family in care of Wainwright-Bernhardt Funeral Home. Written condolences to the familymay be e-mailed to wb funeralhome@comcast.net.
Originally published October 27, 2007 |
Comments:
So tragic and sad.
I am heartbroken for you and your family.
I am leaving some of my strength out there for you, so when you need it close your eyes and it is yours.
Your courage in sharing this is commendable.
Much love.
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