Why is Love so hard

  • November 21, 2007 at 8:50 AM by rossmommy
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I've been with my b/f for 1yr and 6mo.  He has a 5 yr old lil boy and together we have a 8mo old lil boy. Me and his lil boy were good he always listened and now he tells me he hates me doesn't want me and his daddy together wishes he didn't have a brother. I am sick of it. My b/f mom and stepmom treat me like crap. His sisters call me a whore and a bitch but i'm always nice and just ingore them. Well last weeekend my b/f had friends over and we got in a fight and he shoved me. It hurt me so bad i've been staying with my mom and dad. Well i called this morning and told him i was coming home and he didn't do nothing but bitch the whole time. He says he wants me to come home, but how can he not be nice or act a lil excited? I want to be with him and I want to make it work and i love him with all my heart, but something isn't right and I can't put my finger on it. He promised me he would never touch me again is he just trying to get me to come home. should i belive him when he says he loves me if he loved me would he have shoved me?

Comments:

DazeD...
Well as far as the family as the family is concerned ignore them, they aren't who you gonna be with! Now as far as his son goes he needs to talk to him because he has no right to talk to you like that even if he doesn't like you he should respect you...now to the meat and potatoes of the whole conversation he should never put his hands on you but to be honest he could have done alot more...Thank God he didn't! I think he sees that now you won't go for that so he may never try it again...but if he does you should end it for sure and never look back because like the southern saying here fool me onces shame on you fool me twice then shame on me! As far as how he is acting he is a man, he probably listening to his friends and they are telling him to be hard and don't show weakness..you should see a diffrence in his attitude when you get back, if not then you should be a little weary and not give in too easy because remember you are still hurting so he should know that. I hope everything works out for you!

DazeDelights Nov. 21, 2007 at 4:07 PM

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