I'm angry... and im Venting... sorry if my vulgar words offend any one...

[Jayn0000]

Bloody fucking hell im so fucking pissed off.. no.. i swear i am just so livid.. Alan(DH) is a poor mother... all he does to fix the damed kids is give them a fucking cup and shove them in a room alone so they can cry... cause THAT solves the problem.. no, it just makes them scream so much their damed noses get plugged and then they cant breathe.. he checkes diapers.. 6 outta 10 times.. and the other 4 the kid is just screwed on.. he only feeds them if i ask him.. and then he still gives me flack, he NEVER thinks to do it by him self.. --- like today.. he apprentilly asked me what to make the kid.. i didnt answer.. so he preceeded to make HIMSELF @ FUCKING HAMBURGERS AND NOTHING FOR HER... FINALLY... 3 minutes before her fucking bed time.. she sais "Mommie.. I'm hungry.. i asked him what he gave her.. he said .. nothing.. i didn't answer him.." YOU COULDN"T HAVE FUCKING SHARED YOURS DAMN IT.. MADE HER SOMETHING... USED YOUR OWN BRAIN>>> BAH!!!!! medicine.. HA.. yea right.. gas ex.. they dont need it.. ever.. teething meds.. meh.. if shes chewing on everything and HAS been for the past 2 hours.. ( as well as SCREAMING ) maybe he'll think about it.. he REFUSES to actually clean their noses.. like uses a q-tip and clean the bogers that are crusty up inside so AIR can flow.... YEA.. RIGHT... he'll sometimes wipe them if they are like . dripping down the kids faces.. but other wise.. no way... ... and then,,,, when i ask him to watch them .. so i can text a friend.. who is worried about her Pregnancy & her fucking baby falling out.. he just.. sits there watching TV letting them scream, jump/crawl all over me.. when i have been in fucking pain from the NEWEST one.. trying to break out from the fucking inside out... do I do that shit to him.. No.. do i stop watching WHAT EVER i am watching... or doing.. so HE can do WHAT EVER... so HE can play fucking video games.. so HE can be a fucking lazy bum and loaf about.. YES... SO FUCK IT !!! IM so fucking pissed right now.. FUCK EVERYTHING!!! BAH!!! I AM ANGRY... and now... I'm going to bed..

[sebct0607]

Nov. 25, 2007 at 11:53 PM I am sorry that you have to deal with this, but am a little relieved that it is not ONLY me.  My husband and I have gotten into a lot of stupid fights over the same exact stuff. guys just do not realize that when they become fathers their children should come first. everything is new to babies, they cannot do for themselves so it is our job as the parents to care for them. unfortunately guys do not think the same way and they expect us to automatically know how to do it and we have to tell them without telling them what to do ......uhm very aggrivating and confusing sometimes. and omg don't YOU dare sit back and wait for him to do something that you KNOW you should do when it comes to the baby, "you just used my baby to prove a point to me ????????" just thought i would let you know i am in the same situation, but " you would never find another guy to do as much with these babies as i do" . -E

[funnyhead]

Dec. 11, 2007 at 10:03 AM

you already know my opinion.... good thing there's nothing wrong with me, eh? he'd feel like a big ass if i ended up in the hospital with baby issues cause he threw bitch fits whenever you'd text me.

it SHOULD get better once the boy gets here... no worries. at least, one can hope. either that or we should escape to seattle every 6 months.... good plan? yeah.       ;]

-Boo