SOOOOOOOOOOOO...I slipped up at Thanksgiving dinner and made mention of the fact that my hubby & I have chosen not to vaccinate our son. Apparently, after we left, my in-laws had some sort of a conversation about us. So much so, that my mil felt the need to call my mother! We are 30 years old. We are parents. We have our own homes & our own lives. My mil RARELY calls, let alone comes around. But now that she doesn't like our decision, she calls my mom??? Now I am dreading Christmas because that's probably the next time I'll see her & I REALLY don't want to hear it! I've got my facts all ready, along with the research I've done before we came to this decision. I am ready to stand up for myself, but I don't think I should have to. I know that choosing not to vax is a hot issue right now & I expect to have to defend our decision in the public arena (though it's not something I share that freely with people), but I think our family should be supportive. My parents are supportive...especially after I showed them the ingredients included in the vax (like aborted fetal tissue in the MMR). I don't know why I would expect my mil to react any differently. She was upset that I didn't have the quad-whatever test done during pregnancy to check for birth defects. When I told her that there was nothing that I would do about the results, she acted shocked...like I should kill my baby if we wasn't "perfect." AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!