Fed Up!!!

  • December 4, 2007 at 6:51 PM by sweetshygurl044
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Ok so here's my situation.. I am a single mom of a 3 month old lil boy and I live at home with my parents.. For me to live home I have to clean the WHOLE house, not to mention pay my own electric bill, pay for my food and my sons formula.. My House is a 2 family converted into a one family and my parents expect me to clean it all and take care of my son by myself.. Its so hard to do, my son is very fussy and hates to be alone he is the type that always has to be with me.. I never get the chance to clean this house because once it is clean my parents go right back and make it dirty.. I feel like a slave to them.. I feel useless in this household.. My mom is the type to make you feel guilty about everything.. I dont know what to do anymore.. I need some advise.. Please someone help me.. Thanks for listening.. Sabrina

Comments:

couga...
Sounds like you need to try and get your own place.....you will still be cleaning the whole house but at least it will be your mess....I know I spend most days cleaning up messes its our job we are mommies and unfortunately as soon as we get it clean the little ones mess it up again.....

cougarkristi Dec. 4, 2007 at 6:56 PM

Chatt...

Many ppl clean lots of houses just to put food on the table ...even with another income from a spouse

YOu have to count ur blessings

I bet if u show that you are ur parents will respond to that and how responsible ur being

They are trying to help u ...and help u learn to take care of ur little one

Lots of ppl work 2  jobs and don't have a nice place to stay

Sure it's hard with a lilttle one.. U have to work that out and in time u'll manage

It'll get easier

besides...what is ur plan//? If u don't stay there where would u go? If u do stay u have to go by the rules best u can

good luck 

ChattyWifePlus2 Dec. 4, 2007 at 6:56 PM

lande...
Well, I can tell you that I was in a similar situation. For 1 year with my boyfriend's parents, and for another 1 1/2 years at my parents house, after we left my boyfriends parents house bc I flipped out on them one night. It is very hard, and there were many nights I cried and wanted to run away. I don't know what else to say but keep your head up, it will get better as soon as you can get your own place. Keep your goals in sight, it will be that much more worth it when you reach that point. Until then, I wish you the best.

landensmom Dec. 4, 2007 at 7:01 PM

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