my kids have this thing that they hate each other and wish each other would die and they literally try to do serious bodily harm to each other .i live in central louisiana and we had to drive 2 hours away a few weeks ago because my 14 year old punched my younger son whose 12 so hard in his eye that he broke a bone and we thought initially that he would need surgery.now keep in mind that they supposedly hate each other well the other day a kid tried to jump onmy 12 year old and jared the 14 year old tried to tear his head off.does anybody have any suggestions on how to maybe help them to get along better because this is really getting out of hand and their dad(sperm donor) will not try to help with them and said he does not wanna be involved with them.jared now has to goto court because of jordans eye they put battery charges on him.my feelings are not easily hurt and i will take into consideration all suggestions.i called the police myself so i am not condoning this or just letting it happen.

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Dec. 12, 2007 at 9:10 AM SOME DAY SOON, THEY WILL BE BEST OF FRIENDS BELIEVE IT OR NOT, WHEN THEY MATURE THEY WILL REALIZE WHAT FAMILY IS ALL ABOUT, AND FOR NOW TRY TO KEEP A HANDLE ON THINGS IF POSSIBLE, MAYBE THE COURTS COULD HELP ON THIS.

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Dec. 12, 2007 at 9:24 AM thats what i'm hoping but so many people are sitting in judgement and it is sickening like i want them to fight.i have put both in counseling and in severalother programs the courts thought would help and hopefully things will get better soon.

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