All about me...

[Loveinalaska]

So here is every thing you might want to know about me. Every one should have these, it would save some time in friendships. lol!

I am 25 years old and grew up in a very small town in Oregon, think small town - no smaller. We currenlty live in Alaska, three years left woo hoo! I joined the military (AF) at 18 where i met and married my husband of 6 long years. We have two children, Brenna is five and our son Cedric Jr is one. I am now a disabled veteran and my husband is still active duty and currently in Iraq (hopefully home in feb).  I have been overseas, served during the war and been to lots of different states. My husband on the other hand has been all over the world and has been to most of the states. We just started our love story this year i am excited to see where it takes us....

I have a very strong personality, i am loud, i talk about sex allot, and when i believe in some thing i believe whole heartedly. I do not believe in spanking, i did not walk around for nine miserable months and have hours and hours of labor to physically inflict pain apon my child. I did not do all that hard work to load them with baggage to take into their adult life. My children are my mission, i am to raise them to be successful and productive members of society, to teach them to be loyal, kind, compassionate, funny, and respectful. So far so good. They are the funniest and most polite children. Every once in a while they get a little white trashy but hey its in their blood. lol! I am working on becoming a vegan, we have cut out so much meat and there are so many things we have gone all natural on. This is taking longer than i thought it would but i am trying to ease us all into is slowly. I am an avid reader and am always looking for ways to better my life, my families lives. I am a self help whore and enjoy learning how i can be a better, person, parent, wife, sister, friend and so on and so on. Dr Phil is my hero, Tyra Banks is my best friend, and Montell Williams is my secret lover - shhh dont tell!  ha ha ha

My family is bi racial and we have experienced our share of racism on both sides. We have been sat at the back of a black restraunt because i am white, some one refused to cut my husbands hair cause he is black and children at the play ground dont want to play with my 1/2 black daughter. We have chosen a path in life that will make for strong educated loving children. They are going to be wonderful adults with the things they will endure and go through having a white mother and black father. If only our society knew that every racist situation makes us stronger they might stop and think.

My husband is Pentacostal but hasnt been to church in years. He says he has his own relationship with god that no religion or church could understand. Im ok with that. We have choosen to raise our children with education on all religions and to let them choose. They actually dont have to choose any, i just want them to live and be happy. I personally do not believe in god. My own opinion is it is a weak persons way for vengance, apathy, comfort, and an excuse not to live life to the fullest. "GOD" is a persons excuse not to do this or that, it is a reason for people to judge you if you allow them to, and most christians tend to be christian when its convenient for them. I know what is right and wrong and so will my children, we dont need a book to know that. There is no hell, no eternal damnation, no devil. There is no battle between good and evil. You make the choices and you are responcible for them. My husband disagrees so we dont talk about it. ha ha ha i am ok with that. i dont judge others for their beliefs i just dont want any one wasting their time on a conversation about it or trying to convert me. I have read most of the bible and been to lots of churches. I do have friends that believe in god, we just dont talk about it. So i am on a new path, i am reading allot about pagans, and wicca's. I grew up on an indian reservation and have some very special gifts. I seem to relate well to what i do know about this group. I am excited to learn more.

Currently i am a stay at home mother. BUT! i do have other things i do. I have a very small cake decorating business with my friend, and i sell Passion Party products. There is nothing wrong with dressing sexy, using sex toys, and sliding down your own personal stripper pole for your husband. Talk to me ladies i can help you find your inner diva!!  I also love photography, although i dont usually post my work.  I do lots of play groups, dinners with friends, parties, kids craft groups, all kinds of things. As long as my kids can go im there, and if you dont think kids can go well let me help you find a way. www.loveinalaska.com

I am judgmental, brutally honest, emotional and sarcastic. Oh and my favortie words are shit, and I hate... I am every thing people swear they are not. I am a great friend once we get passed who i am first. I dont have allot of time to spend with friends unless its already been arranged and planned out but i try. I have no interest in people who just want me for day care, or to run to the store for them, or to give them things, or to give them discounts on my products. I am not interested in a friend who wants me to come look at a picture then say she will be right back while i watch her kids or her dogs. Other motives than just being my friend will not be tollerated. You take care of your kids and i will take care of mine. Its that easy! That doesnt mean i dont wanna help you out, it means dont take advantage of my heart.

Any how there is me in a nut shell, oh wait - dont call my kids malato its a racist term that i do not appreciate!  Alrighty ladies. I look forward to chatting with all of you! ha ha ha

 Much love my friends XOXOX,

T

[bzymummy]

Dec. 12, 2007 at 4:54 PM I think I have found my twin. LOL We have VERY similar personalities. If you ever want to chat just send me a message. Hope your having a fantastic day. TTYL

[amykysmom]

Dec. 28, 2007 at 12:05 PM

Hey feel free to check out my page. I think your kids are great. Your beliefs are great and your personality is strong. This is something that I have lived with. I know that my friends turn people away when they ask them personal or even none personal questions. They say GO ASK AMY! That is because I am that brutally honest person. If you don't want to know don't ask. I will tell you what is on my mind.

I don't like to judge but I do have an opinion on just about everything. Does it mean I am right? Hell no! Do I care? Sometimes.......But I still have a right to that opinion.

I don't care if you have a religion or a belief. As long as you believe in yourself and your family. That is all you really need. I think what you did a good thing typing this all out. Feel free to add me as a friend. I got to get back to work now. YEA HAW!!!

[rhyrhysmom]

Jan. 14, 2008 at 1:36 AM WoW LOL we are on the same wavelength on sooooo much of what you said!!! way to put it all out there :)