What A Way To Celebrate My Birthday...

[JanieS1219]

Today is my birthday...I should be happy and in a celebrating kinda mood...but Im am totally devastated!!!  My very best friend in the whole wide world has informed me he is thinking of moving out of the state  and all I could say is...whatever makes you happy is all that matters.  I dont know why Im feelin this way...not like this isnt the way my life always goes...it was just kinda nice to be happy for a change...even for just a short period of time...guess I should be thankful that I had the time I have had with him...but deep within me...I guess the selfish part of me wants to tell him I dont want him to go...but I cant bring myself to do this...hes been so good to me and a totally awesome friend...I decided to hide my feelings and wish him all the best. 

Thxs for lettin me vent...have a wonderful happy & safe holiday season *(hugs)* 

[Shelbel]

Dec. 19, 2007 at 9:42 AM awwww Janie ... I'm so sorry girl!  Just goes to show you men SUCK even when they are just friends!!  LOL!!  That was a JOKE!!...I'm KIDDING!!  REALLY  Seriously...why don't you tell him how you feel...maybe not really HOW YOU FEEL...but tell him how much you are going to miss him and you really don't want him to go!!  What's the worst that could happen? 

[Shelbel]

Dec. 19, 2007 at 9:42 AM HAPPY BIRTHDAY! DEAR JANIE!!

[IamTraC]

Dec. 19, 2007 at 10:07 AM We talkin bout Bri here?

[armyqtsmom]

Dec. 19, 2007 at 11:36 AM Hey I was just going to send you a birthday wish.....and saw that you are feeling down....I can relate to your feelings.....and I think you can relate your feelings in a special way to this person...your heartache I am sure will remain..but at least you will have said your piece instead of wondering...should I have told him...put yourself at ease and remember your own self.....And enjoy your birthday you work so hard to remember everyone else! You deserve a big hug and pat on the back for what you do. Don't forget that! There seems to be alot of people out there who care for you so just remember that.Happy Birthday!  You deserve it!

[lachick]

Dec. 19, 2007 at 12:28 PM happy Birthday to you. Maybe you should tell him how you feel. Just say i will really miss you wish you did not have to go., would love it if you wre here. then say but if this is good for you then I will be happy for you but sad for me as I am losing a friend.

[TazzMom]

Dec. 19, 2007 at 1:03 PM

  Such Smart Mommies and Friends!!   Listen to them.  You are being such a good friend.