Finally Got The Christmas Spirit - Better Late Than Never

[adoptingmom2007]

So between the last month of my work being the busiest I ever remember and the wicked stomach bug that came and lasted for almost two weeks - I've felt much more like the grinch than my typically holly jolly self these days (my dog is named Holly - I LOVE CHRISTMAS).  My house is sparsely decorated, no baking this year and because of the flu I barely got to shop (though i seemed not to lack for gifts!) except online.

So a few weeks ago in another group I belong to one of my buddies brought up the idea of doing a RAOK (random act of kindness) on a particular day - similar to the movie pay it forward.  I've done it a few times throughout the year (I am a big believer in karma) like having an extra train ticket and giving it to the guy who forgot his wallet. 

So today as I ran out to get a last minute gift for my hubbys cousin (since we are now visiting tomorrow) and was still feeling a bit in a funk.  I decided to not yell or cuss at the bad drivers but somehow didnt seem enough.  So I got to the mall and started thinking about a coffee.  I rounded the corner and smelled the gingerbread latte.  Well it set off a lightbulb in my head.  Today was the day for a RAOK.  So as I paid for my overpriced drink (but ohhhh was it worth it) I purchased a gift card.  I anxiously waited for the next patron.  I was so happy to see two tired looking moms with their infants walk in.  As mom 1 reached the corner I turned to her and said "Happy Holidays - your coffee is on me today".  I was so excited - and it sounds dumb but my heart was pounding.  She was so sweet and so excited - asked if I was sure.  I said that my friends and I had decided that this season we would do at least one RAOK for someone in the spirit of the season and that today was my day - and enjoy.  She thanked me again and I went about my day - gingerbread latte in hand - a spring in my step and a smile on my face.  This is what Christmas is all about. 

It is so much better to give then to receive.

[Ottawamommy]

Dec. 25, 2007 at 1:05 PM

Well..what a wonderful thing to do!! I think it's a great idea, and I'm going to try to adopt your positive RAOK attitude!! 

 I really wish you and your family a wonderful holiday season!! You've been such a great friend to me this year!!

 With love,

Michelle