to try or not to try and if try when??

[hardlawangel]

well I have had the baby bug again for a while.. I wanted to get my body back before we tried and wiat til Gavin was one. but then we got to thiking if he is one at the least they will be 22 months apart (almost 2 years) I dont think I want them that far.. So we have been discussing to start TTC this march when he is 9 months which a the very least we are talking about 18 months a year and half part. Some pros... they are closer, I will still be in my 20's (very end but still) and then I can realy start focusing on my body and get the twins done. Okay the up side to waiting til he is a year is my body has completely healed and bounced back and I would have one out of dipars as one is coming in. plus I little more understaning on Gavins part with a new baby. So I keep tossing this around... Either way I still  want to lose 10 lbs before we concieve so that when i do gain it wont be weigh up there on the scales.. But AJ thinks we should start in march and see what gos plans are.. I hope its for me to concieve right way and not take over 2 years like the last time... Plus the chances of twins for me just hiked up the % quite a bit. hmmmmm............ what to do what to do?

[angelfire77]

Jan. 1, 2008 at 3:35 PM I say keep exercising and toning. Eat healthy and drink lots of fluids......while trying to conceive. I think you are an awesome Mom and you never know when you will conceive.So if you start trying now with out trying too hard(to drop the lbs or conceive) there won't be pressure to lose that ten lbs by a certain date or to conceive by a certain date. Am I making sense at all? Those are some deep thoughts for the first day of the new year girl!