OK (deep breath) I'm good...

[bowiegirl]

First off thank you ladies for your encouraging words the past few days. I really needed them.

I want to update you on what happened. I did talk to mom, although I still cant say the words 'I'll miss u' w/out tearing up, I do understand more & I am ok. Come to find out I know the guys family (she thinks I may have met him but I was to young to remember) I played w his dd's years ago- I do remember all that. That did make me feel a lot better like she was going to family or something. The situation with the house is still fuzzy but its not my main concern. My 18 & 19 yr old siblings will be staying with my dad while in school so thats ok. I know most of her family is out there & her parents r getting older & need her help. I know it can really be a good move for her & Im kinda happy for her but u know what?? I want my mommy!!! I know its selfish but its true! I dont want her to move so far away! I am ok with it & I know I will get used to the idea, but for now I still just want her to stay with me forever. Thanks again ladies & I know that this too shall pass...

[djmommy2]

Jan. 15, 2008 at 12:33 PM Aweeeeeeeeeee....I don't have a good relationship with my mom but for my friends that do and are hurting like you are, I feel so sad...

[linasing]

Feb. 2, 2008 at 9:51 PM well i feel better too knowing that she is not going to a complete stranger.  i feel your pain. moving away from my mom was not easy (harder for the kids though) but over time it just all rolls together. 

[mama4257]

Feb. 23, 2008 at 4:12 PM

i totally understand the "i want my mommy" i was induced with my son and my mom had to leave and get the kids ready for daycare and my labor started, i cried and called everyone looking for her to come and be with me.  i live at home with them and if she gets this new job, she will be moving out of state and i will have to stay. It will be alright in the end. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.