Why do girls still hit on my husband knowing i am there?

[LizaandAnge]

I hate it when i go places and i cant even go to the bathroom cus when i come back my hubby tells me that a girl tried to get his number and all the flirting bullshit. it makes me so mad i dont know what to do? i have a baby now and i cant do nothing stupid, i used to go crazy and yell at the girls by saying what the hell are you looking at you slut he is mine, thats when i was insecure and jelous i am more confident now cus i know he will never leave me and he loves both me and our girl and nobody can take that away. but girls still try cus some girls are scandalous like that. i hate being disrespected like that, what kind of girls want to ruin relationships? hum let me think?? only skanky ones. lol  well i am sorry if i sound nuts right now but i just cant take this crap anymore i want people to respect our relationship not think oh he is hot i am going to stare at her man and try to piss her off. i hate when girls think they are better and try to get him to call them, he never takes numbers and he always tells them that he's married and has a baby and they still dont care. wow what is this world coming to? does anybody out there understand how i feel? sometimes i feel insecure and its not my fault. oh well right what can i do about it? i know what i am worth and i know that e have a deep love that nobody can take away, and yes they can try and think they'll succeed but my man is stubborn and will reject even the hottest babes. i am the luckiest girl alive to have a sexy loyal and honest man! he just told me that he is in love with me and that is the number one reason why he wont cheat on me no matter what a girl does, a girl can come on to him naked and he would walk away, he already had hella sexy girls in his past and he is done with all that bullshit, he dont play games like other guys his age.  i am not saying all men but alot of them do play games.

[kbear]

Mar. 4, 2007 at 3:55 AM they do that to my hubby, sometime when he is at work they will to. and they know he is married. that makes me so mad.

[tracylynnr67]

Mar. 4, 2007 at 4:13 AM My husband is 41 and he gets all these 20-ish girls (not that 20-ish is a little girl but when your oldest child is almost 21...anyone around his age is a kid to us, especially girls my husband is just about old enough to be their dad) flirting with him. Honestly...while on 1 end I find it a little disturbing that these girls flirt with a man who could be their dad....I find it flattering that my man is attractive to others. Not just 20's flirt with him...he gets it from all the females. Ah...but he's mine...21 years and going strong. So...just sit back and take it for what it is...flattery that your man is attractive...and he's alllllll yours ;-)

[count9dport]

Mar. 4, 2007 at 4:53 AM I used to have terrible problems with jealousy, and finally i realized that the best thing to do is laugh at them. I mean come on! they are ridiculous and sad..girls that hit on married men...so i just raise one eyebrow at them and laugh...who gives a shit what they do..you know your man is head over heels with you and that's all that matters...let them be pathetic losers if they want to. you just give em a smile and passionatly kiss your man!!

[Dreamstorm1220]

Mar. 4, 2007 at 10:28 AM

If he knows it pisses you off so bad, why does he even tell you? I mean, he doesn't want them, doesn't respond to them, doesn't take the numbers offered, so why ruin your good time and put you in a bad mood?

 He might just like your jealous reaction.

[alisha25]

Mar. 30, 2007 at 1:52 PM I still get extremely jealous when I see a girl I think is prettier then me.  I know there is always going to be someone smarter, prettier, multi-talented then me.  I have to accept that, accept who I am and understand why my guy is driven to me.  Girls like to hit on married men or men who are taken because it's a challenge for them.  Yeah I call those girls "home wreckers" point blank that's what they are.  If a girl has intentions of trying to get your man or my man she is just that- an evil, knifing b! Women are also attracted to men to show signs of committment, stability and morals.  They think they can walk in put on their cute little "f**k me" smile and shake their bootie side to side trying to get a positive response from our guys.  I can't believe women actually throw themselfs at men like that.  I never EVER had to throw myself on a man...I don't chase, I expect them to chase me and show how "worthy" they really are to be lucky enough to grab my attention and time.  The hell with those little B's...they just want what you have and lookin in all the wrong places.